Ref18, you are as trigger happy as ever, the Whackenator lives.
I'd point out to the league the flip side of the issue. How is not treating this "VIP" the same as any other coach going to hurt the league?
The other coaches are already going to think so and so is getting calls because of his position.
I've had to deal with this kind of crap in mens leagues when you have some of the NBA guys playing. The NBA guys expect to be treated differently, and the other players THINK the NBA guys will get all the calls based on the awe factor, so you really can't win. You just do your job and take care of business.