My association has over 60 officials. We have between 10 and 15 female officials. 2 Ref University ball regularly and a few others are working up the ranks to get to that level.

Basically in my experience as a female official you have to excell in your position. Not everyone (partners or coaches) will trust you on your first time out but be confident, make the calls, and relax, they'll come around (at least hopefully most of them will).

Get out as often as you can. Find a mentor. Ask lots of questions. Go to camps. Most of all - have fun!!