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Old Wed Oct 20, 2004, 04:02pm
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Originally posted by Bob Lyle
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Originally posted by Rich Fronheiser


I asked the OP how he would react if a kid did that to him, BTW, but I get the impression that he feels we're all just hired help and he's the one who's doing all the work. Sad, really, but his mentality is typical of today's youth coaches, at least from my perspective.
I would have flagged the kid also but I don't find this type of behavior or coach response to be in any way typical.

You sound too bitter and cynical to effectively work youth sports. Sure, some of the coaches are psychos but they are in the distinct minority. The vast majority are dedicated to the kids and appreciative of the officials contributions to the game.
Well, neither you nor Rich know me, and that's alright, sot go ahead and make a "judgment"... Rich didn't go on to say that I would have benched the player even if he had not been ejected (in the context of his reply about the player that got in his face and told him to "mind his own damn business.") BTW kid = young goat, and I happen to think that these young men are not goats, through the course of this posting I am not very fond of the way a minority of people have referred to the youth as "kids" or "lovable youngsters" in a very derrogatory tone. The comment he made above about my mentality of officials are "just hired help" comes from his own "judgment", which again is his perrogative. I beleive quite the contrary, any adult that has an effect upon a young man's life should be responsible for their actions, positive or negative. Youth sports is a great opportunity for learning life's lessons. Occassionally, as you point out, there are some "psychos" in the coaching ranks, but, let's be honest, there are also some out there in the strips that are there for the wrong reasons as well. And the system in place that participants cannot question the "judgment" of officials is ripe for controversy. In our High School league last season, a player from another team was ejected for, in the official's "judgment", throwing a punch during a tackle. Videotaping of the play showed indisputable evidence that anyone could discern that it was clearly a clean tackle. The state never heard or addressed the concerns because his "judgment" cannot be protested. Again, I ask, where is the logic, where is the justice, where is the accountability? I guess no where in our system, but there is a greater system that does hold all of us accountable for our actions...
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