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Great dialogue...this is what I've been after for months, now.
We have gotten away from the topic though. We are more concerned with ego and the Big Dog/Lil' Pup mentality. We've all worked games where we've kicked calls and seen calls kicked. How we handle them starts with the pre-game. If you can accept the help of your partner for some calls, why be so pig-headed that you can't accept it for another. As I've said before, thsi is not about looking good...it's too late for that. It is about getting the call right and that is the bottom line!
Even new umpires can set the tone at the pre-game.
"Jim, I'm glad to finally get the chance to work with you. Give me what you've got on check-swings, foul balls and and the like and I'll try to help you out on swipes, the lane and pulled feet. I want to get 'em all right today. After the game, I'd appreciate any input or advice you've got."
I've worked with some of the best I'v ever seen. We almost always have a pre-game that involves assistance, coverage and what to do when the pooch gets screwed. It's totally CYA, but has worked for more years than I'd like to admit.
As the veteran working with a rookie, establish the rapport and let him/her know that if you are coming to him for something, it's for the good of the game. The coaches know who the Big Dogs are, but they will respect the guy that makes a mistake, fixes it and learns. The next time out, you'll be the pro.
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