[DJ]

Unless you have an evaluator that actually knows how to observe and be constructive about the job you do, it will be up to the crew themselves to evaluate their performance. If you can't sit down as a crew and visit about the game and your crew's performance you have a problem. Put your ego in your back pocket with your flag and have a discussion about anything that may have come up during the game. If you can't participate in the postgame without getting everyone mad at you then I'm afraid the problem is with you not the rest of your crew. One call does not make an official, one game does not make an official. Put the call behind you and get ready for the next call which is the important one. If your problems are chronic with the same official then yes you do have a problem and how you handle it will depend on your personality.