Brandon,
Dan sort of beat me to this, but around here, officials never want to be accused of calling "nit pick fouls". Maybe I'm not understanding what you mean by that phrase, but many of us use it to describe a hand check foul that was called b/c the defender "measured up" one time, for example. Or a rebounding foul where the inside player got bumped, but still came down with the ball without being dislodged. Yeah, there's contact in those situations, but many of us would rather let the play continue.
Also, how did this "little girl" get your username to IM you? Why do you care what this "little girl" said to you over the computer?
Call your game consistently, regardless of the score, and don't respond to IM's from little girls. Us old guys get arrested for doing that.
