Thanks for all the comments.
What is the bare minimum I need to get started, other than good attitude. I hate to be so remedial here, but that is what I need. And when do I need to get what? For example, everyone offers "starter uniform" kits for refs. Good or bad? Besides the Fox40, which seems to be the consensus whistle, what is the must have gear and do i need it to start?
By the way, yes I do think this is a friendly board. I've seen contentious boards and this isnt one.

And actually I found that very encouraging. One of the things I miss about playing is the comradarie with the players; it seems like there is a similar feeling among officials.
Clark