Juulie --
Grreat job. I can see the difference just reading the post -- before you would have said something like, "Did I do the right thing?" or "I was so nervous that I couldn't concentrate for the rest of the game and couldn't find my car in the parking lot afterward."
Giving Ts with the same matter-of-factness as you report a "hold" or a "push" is a sign of real growth in an official.
(Now, go make sure your head still fits through the neck opening on your shirt.)