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Originally posted by Mike Simonds
His advice to use your voice and talk to the players when you are around the pile is so valuable. The umpire can do so much to control player emotions. A friendly, unbiased attitude towards both teams does wonders to make the game the enjoyable experience it should be but a stern warning at the right moment is also needed at the proper times.
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So true. I was the R and during the pregame, the U and I walked across the field to talk with the coaches (we work assignments, not crews). One of the receivers had his knee pads tucked above his knees with the knees exposed. I indicated to the U that we need to make sure the pads cover the knees.
As we walked up to the head coach for the pregame discussion before I can say anything, the U blurts out, "IF YOU THINK THAT KID IS PLAYING, THEN FORGET ABOUT IT!" Well, you can guess that the coach didn't receive us warmly. Maybe the iciest chat I've ever had. He also didn't know what the U was talking about. After I got the kids (coach and U) to calm down, I simply shared what the rules required and asked the coach to ensure that his player was equipped according to rule. Fine.
Prior to the kickoff, I told the U that you attract more flies with honey than vinegar. He didn't get it!