[icallfouls]

Welcome to my opinion on this.

As far as your not being the calling official. That is not the issue. If your partner(s) make a call, no call, ruling, or whatever, you are 'the calling officialS.' This is something that aggrivates me no end. When its a great game and the coaches love us, the words used by referees are 'we' and 'I'. When things go haywire, it is 'my partner', or 'the calling official' that is to be blamed. If you have information or knowledge, it is incumbent on you to say something.

Additionally, the table is part of our crew. I always let the table know this during pre-game so that communication breakdowns like this do not occur. If we need their assistance, we all have to be on the same page.