The situation was handled correctly, and I agree the second official should have administered the second T.I have had a similar situation to this. I told the coach that he would be asked to leave the gym following the second T if it was administered. He looked at the scoreboard (down 20 with 6 minutes to play) then looked back at me with kind of a shrug. I told him it wasn't fair to the kids. He agreed said thanks and sat down. I then leaned into him so only he could hear and said,"If I have to watch this mess so do you." We had a good laugh and the game proceeded without incident. I suggest you know your audience before you try to joke about the game.