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Blade3,
This can be a difficult question to answer because we are not there to see or observe. There are some important factors such as your teams age, where and how often this "abuse" or "style of coaching" takes place and the temperment of all involved. If your coach is approachable then talk to him but do not whine or complain behind his back. Tell him that the coaching is bothering you or mention your concerns, then listen to what he says or tries to teach. If you are not comfortable with the coach, then try your parnets with the same thing. If you are not comfortable with that, find someone to communicate with, an assistant coach, a teacher or counselor, etc.
However, also realize that what may appear to be intolerable or unbearable MAY be a coach that is trying to get the most out of you and wants you to excel (not to be confused with winning at all costs). Many coaches truly care about their players and show it in different ways. And some coaches go to far. This is something you need to analyze, talk to someone if needed and then act appropriately. Best of luck and nice to see you on the board.
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Ron
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