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In your pre-game you should get a good indication if your partner WANTS your input. Ask him outright, "Do you want feedback and suggestions during and/or after the game?" Then act accordingly. When you do offer helpful, corrective criticism, see how he reacts. If you get "Yeah, but," too many times, then save your breath. More likely, your partner will be grateful and receptive.
I think that new refs should not tell ANYONE it is their first game, or their second game, or their first season, etc. Telling people of your inexperience doesn't really serve any useful purpose and sets a perception that you will be inferior, IMO.
The most helpful concept I learned the first year was to always make eye contact with your partner. Never do anything after a whistle until you and your partner are both ready to go, players are counted, etc. This alone can greatly reduce mistakes. After that, a LOUD whistle and a strong "arm up" (every time) is the first mechanic new guys should concentrate on. Good luck, have fun!
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