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Originally posted by JRutledge
I have said "ladies" or "gentlemen" for some time now. Not sure what else to say unless I am refering to a specific number. I have my own personal problems with the words "ladies" and "gentlemen," partly because they have a social significance that has a certain meaning. But I only do that when I am at the FT line and I say, "two shots gentlemen." I do not use that wording any other time. If I had a better word to use, I would. But I think these are the main things that people understand as being polite and being professional.
I would never call the players a "boy," for the obvious reasons. I think it is our job to always show some respect to the players until they do something that suggests that we have to be more stern. Peace
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Jeff, I was waiting to hear what you had to say. I appreciate your opinion, and of course, I would never, never, never call a player "boy." You are right about being polite and professional, and showing respect. Also correct is the time to be more stern.
I'm just thinking that there is also a time to be more familiar, although not too familiar. It seems like it might soften the situation a little.
What I have gained from all your responses, is this:
I'm going to try "sir" sometimes. I like the sound of that. I think that is less condescending than "son", although I think son sounds less patronizing (notice the male reference in this word) when it comes from a woman. But if some players are offended, "sir" is a good, respectful substitute.
But what is the female equivalent, "ma'am"? That doesn't sound good at all!! "Miss" doesn't work, either. Hm...
I'm also going to try Tony's "You know, ..." That may work well with the right tone of voice. Looking back, I realize that I mis-read Tony's post, as "You know, you're arms need to be straight up." THAT's what I'll try. I"m skipping the "partner" all together. I'm quite sure I could never make that work!
Thanks to all for this discussion. I appreciate airing the issue.
[Edited by rainmaker on Nov 2nd, 2003 at 05:04 PM]