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I don't ref, but I think you need the same mentality as the player that just turned the ball over. You can't allow one bad decision to take you out of a game mentally, as a coach, player or ref. You need to be aware enough of the issue that it doesn't occur again, but able to focus on the next play because that play is over. And you need to remain aware that can't fix the bad call - and you don't want to try. You can only deal with the calls ahead of you to ensure that they are the best calls you can make.
I think the hardest thing to deal with is when it isn't one call, but an entire night that is going bad. Players and teams have these nights, and it is the hardest thing for a coach or a player to address at the time it is all going bad on the floor. What I do with my players is try to get them back to basics - when it's going bad, keep it as simple as possible.
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