I have coached and even had to ref on occasion. I still have much to learn, but wanted to get stated officiating. Is my best avenue starting out with my local high school association?

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You can probably just ask a ref at your next game for a phone number to the association in which he/she is a member of. From there, i dont know the specifics of all the things you will need to do.

Sorry if that info didnt really help out

I would agree with south bay. I am from IL so I really cant help but current officials in your state should be able to help