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justcallmeblue Sun Jul 08, 2012 10:55am

Coaches (and parents) of the year award
 
Handling a Tournament this past weekend. Its 100 degrees out on the field, easily. I am in the top of the 6th with the Home team up by 1. Ironically, this game is being played by two teams that are 1 town apart and the coaches know each other personally.

The Home pitcher (having pitched 5 innings and a good pitcher for age), starts off the last inning with a walk, and an error (on her). All of the sudden I see her start to loose it emotionally. She is begging to be taken out, I can see her starting to choke back tears. . .The coaches see this and tell her to pitch out of it. Her emotional state starts to deteriorate after every pitch - a walk here, a walk there. The pitcher then lets in the tying run. She is breaking down, choking back tears and those crying "convulsions" kids have. She is telling her coaches that she cant throw anymore, and is still begging them to take her out. THROUGHOUT THIS INNING I AM HEARING FROM HER BENCH "IF YOU WALK OFF THE FIELD, YOU WILL NEVER PLAY ON THIS TEAM AGAIN." and "IF YOU WALK OFF THE FIELD, YOU WILL NEVER PITCH AGAIN." These types of comments go on for more than 10 minutes and the kids is near a full blown breakdown when she gets the last out. As she is walking in to the dugout, I hear "We are only down 2, but that inning was pathetic." (the comment made directly to the pitcher)

We all know how this story ends: Home team looses and it turns out that the coaches "coaching" this kid are her parents!!!! I can now officially give this award out TODAY because nothing will top it.

Rita C Sun Jul 08, 2012 04:45pm

Sometimes you just wish you could toss a coach for behaving badly toward the children

Rita

IRISHMAFIA Sun Jul 08, 2012 05:17pm

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Originally Posted by Rita C (Post 848432)
Sometimes you just wish you could toss a coach for behaving badly toward the children

Rita

Or toss the kid so the adult cannot act like a bully.:rolleyes:

3afan Sun Jul 08, 2012 05:46pm

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Originally Posted by Rita C (Post 848432)
Sometimes you just wish you could toss a coach for behaving badly toward the children

Rita

sounds good to me! isnt it USC?

ASA/NYSSOBLUE Sun Jul 08, 2012 08:05pm

What age are we talking about?

DeputyUICHousto Mon Jul 09, 2012 07:09am

Safety should be number 1!
 
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Originally Posted by justcallmeblue (Post 848402)
She is breaking down, choking back tears and those crying "convulsions" kids have.

If this child is having the "crying convulsions" how could she possibly field a batted ball. I'd consider this a safety issue. At the very least stop the game and allow her to calm down.

justcallmeblue Mon Jul 09, 2012 07:52am

10u

MNBlue Mon Jul 09, 2012 08:46am

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Originally Posted by justcallmeblue (Post 848500)
10u

OMG! That is ridiculous. I was expecting 16U or 18U.

What is wrong with people?

IRISHMAFIA Mon Jul 09, 2012 11:33am

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Originally Posted by MNBlue (Post 848504)
OMG! That is ridiculous. I was expecting 16U or 18U.

What is wrong with people?

After 14U, the kid would tell the coach to STFU and sit down. :D

CecilOne Mon Jul 09, 2012 11:38am

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Originally Posted by justcallmeblue (Post 848500)
10u

What I expected, past 12&U, not usually that kind of emotion.

Also, read like 6 inning game.

MD Longhorn Mon Jul 09, 2012 11:43am

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Originally Posted by MNBlue (Post 848504)
OMG! That is ridiculous. I was expecting 16U or 18U.

What is wrong with people?

10U (and 8U) coaches/parents are WAY worse (in every way) than 16U or 18U.

MNBlue Mon Jul 09, 2012 11:59am

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Originally Posted by mbcrowder (Post 848545)
10U (and 8U) coaches/parents are WAY worse (in every way) than 16U or 18U.

Since I'm coaching my daughter's 10U team this summer, I take exception to that remark. :D ;)

But, in general, I completely agree with you. I did have an A$$ of a coach this weekend at a 16U tournament. Not very nice to his kids at all. He approached the line with the umpires, but he knew where it was and never crossed it.


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