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NFHS Jewelry Rant
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As our high school season gets underway, I want to make sure you're not that umpire. You know the one. The "other umpire" who allowed the girl to put tape over her earrings to cover it up. The guy who decides to overlook the little circular bandaid covering their nose stud. The homer who didn't make them take off the braided string bracelet. Hey pal, I got something to say to you. Don't make my job tougher in my game by not enforcing the rules in your game. :mad: Ok, I'm done now. |
O so your THAT guy. That inspects every girl up and down trying to catch something that they might be hiding? Do you make them all lift their shirts so you can make sure nobody has navel rings on? This can go both ways.
I agree with you jewerly shouldn't be worn there is a rule....but I also think there is a fine line, between alowing everything....and inspecting every player well enough to see a flesh colored band aid. If I see it I'l make you take it out, but I got to see it first and I got a lot going on in a game to be that focused on jewerly Ok my rants over too. |
Here's my comment on this: making sure the players are properly and legally equipped is the coach's job, not the umpire's. (4-1-2-d) If I happen to notice jewelry before the game, I'll inform the coach. But, I don't "inspect" the players. If I notice jewelry during the game, 3-6-1 Penalty applies. If a player or coach asks if they can tape over jewlery, I tell then no, not unless it is a religious or medical-alert medal.
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My jewelry pet peeve is not with high school that has a penalty. My pet peeve is with ASA, where there is no penalty so the players try and get away with wearing jewelry. If caught they take it off, if not caught they feel as though they have won the battle.
I cannot stand having to stop ASA games three, four times for the removal of jewelry, it really does affect the flow of the game. ASA, please put a penalty into the rule book. A rule with no penalty is not worth the paper it is written on. |
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Easy way to handle it: as you walk into the dugout for the bat inspection, remind the players to take off their jewelry. If anyone has a question about an individual piece, they can ask me then. I rarely have problems with jewelry on my field, and I frequently get thanked for reminding them. |
So, obviously, my anal-ness over jewelry is misplaced. Tell it to my three grandkids who don't have a paternal grandfather because he died when their dad was less than a year old. His dad was garroted at second base by his own necklace.
Tell it to the girl six years ago who was doing her job on a steal play at second base. Baserunner came sliding in, helmet went askew, baserunner's earring left a scar like barbed wire just above the left eye of the second baseman. Less than an inch lower it wouldn't have been a scar just above her left eyebrow, it would have been her eye. The scar is still bad enough. It looks like she has a jack (the child's toy, not the tire thing) embedded in her forehead. I can tell you more ... and I will if it doesn't sink in. What other rules do you people ignore? Does the whole ball have to be over the plate for it to be a strike? Do your half innings only require two outs, or four outs, or do you mix it up because you don't want to enforce the three out requirement this half inning? Yes coaches are responsible. We also know some coaches are not. In NFHS, the rules are plain and they are there for a purpose. It is YOUR responsibility to enforce them. If you are NOT going to enforce them, then step away from the game. NFHS has a different purpose than ASA, NSA, USSSA, ISA, Dixie, Babe Ruth, Little League, PONY, 5 Star or anything else. (And in the other organizations neither you nor the coaches are acting in loco parentis, which is why you have to rule it to be a danger. When I do ASA, there is NOTHING around the neck of any player unless it is religious or medical.) It's is YOUR JOB to do YOUR JOB according to the rules, manuals and directives of NFHS. That includes the jewelry rule. I just hope it doesn't take a death on YOUR field to get you to enforce the rule. Will it take a maiming or a death on your field to make you decide to more diligent in your enforcement? If for no other reason, enforce it in memory of Dana Wall and the life that could have been. |
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And the rule is NOT a gotcha. "Gotcha" umpiring is a different thing entirely. |
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If you expect me to be the player's parent, I want to be able to claim every one of them on my taxes. |
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We should at least be able to claim the coaches. :D |
Regardless of how you recognize the jewelry, remember we can not tell a player to remove anything, just that they can not play while wearing it.
Formal inspections no, but I do watch the players as they go out to field, so that I can correct all of them at once, not one each inning. :rolleyes: |
Sorry about that, I didnt see it.
Maybe you see too good. :D |
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Now: Don't you dare mistake my passion for being over the top. When he was younger, I had the "honor" of telling my oldest stepgrandson why he didn't have two granddaddies like his friends. You do that, then come back and tell me it's a bit over the top. This guy was one of my very best friends in the world, long before his son and my stepdaughter ever joined hands. A bit over the top indeed. |
Sorry for their and your loss, but adults would seem to responsible for their own behavior.
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I can also really empathize with you..
And I've also seen injuries - I've seen a pitcher get her face crushed, I've seen a player in the dugout get smashed and taken off in our ambulance, a good friend and umpire had a stroke in middle of a tournament... the list goes on as I'm sure it would for each of us. This is a dangerous sport. Period. Things do happen and I'm sure there are regrets.. and I'm sure each each of our life experiences affect what we do... So that is said, and I understand that.. In terms of an overall approach for ALL umpires to your cocern - it is still over the top. For you, it may indeed be your passion. That doesnt make it my passion, even if I can empathize with why you would feel the way you do. Although it does kind of twist on me you would allow medical or religious necklaces - it seems to me they can kill/injure just as easily.... In any case, in NFHS ball the rule is clear so if you see it, you must take care of it. |
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b. Adults are responsible for their own behavior c. because of my experience, I am adamant about necklaces in youth games. adults are on their own. |
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I think we are on the same page then. |
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Well, not totally. Today. Yet. |
like we all haven't heard/done this before....
Umpire: time! Umpire: number 15 you cant play with that jewelry on. (so player runs to dugout to remove) Umpire: coach.. come see. (coach makes a face like his/her bucket (which of course, is in the dugout) is stuck up his/her butt) Umpire: coach, that's a team warning for illegal equipment, jewelry in this case. Coach: why you gotta be a d!ck? the last umpires didn't nitpick on the jewelry and we had a great game... wish we had them. (while umpire makes note of team warning on lineup card) (and of course the peanut gallery is chiming in "just let em play, blue" and "nice work ya hero") Umpire: jewelry is illegal coach, lets play ball. Umpire to himself: wait till i find out who worked that last game(s)... making me look like a bad guy for enforcing the rules!! whatever, call your game. btw: did i miss any steps?... as i never called a jewelry timeout before... J/K ;) |
All umpires are fighting this issue, and I'm not talking about jewelry. It's "the other umpire." We've all seen them, some of us automatically know who it is, and every organization has them. Sadly, there are no exceptions.
This is how I tell it. The rules are there because someone wiser than I believes that the sport should be conducted this way. My opinion on whether or not these fellas or ladies are correct is irrelevant. If the book says I shall or must do things a certain way, then damn it, I'm going to do it. I do not like starting in B with no runners on base (remember: I do SP, not FP or Modified). I do not like getting in the set position behind the plate. It makes me miss more of the 12'+ high pitches. I could go on and on about what I do or do not like in the rule book or the umpire manual. But the bottom line is that is not my decision to make, nor is it yours. My gripes go up the chain of command, not down to the coaches or players. If the book has a rule about dangerous jewelry, then so be it - I will enforce it to the best of my ability. And according to ASA, medical bracelets may be worn. However, if they are, they must be taped to the body with the medical information visible. |
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But the bottom line is that is not my decision to make, nor is it yours. My gripes go up the chain of command, not down to the coaches or players. If the book has a rule about dangerous jewelry, then so be it - I will enforce it to the best of my ability. Quote:
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(The mom wasn't hot, either...two big strikes.) |
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I gave a team warning at last Wednesday's high school game for a "Livestrong type" plastic bracelet.
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jewelry issues
First post this year for softball and thought I would chim in. Working a dbl header scrimmage last week and I was PU for 2nd game. Noticed when talking to home team catcher that she had a stud in her upper lip area. Knowing the coach as well as I do, I went to him between innings and told him I didn't want to be an a$$ but "if this were during the regular season I would, depending on when I noticed: 1) stop the game and have her remove the item or if it took to long, have her replaced, or 2) have it removed between innings. As I was telling the coach this he stated that they thought they had the ear thing all set and this was new. I found out later that same inning that this catcher also had one of those bar/stud like things going from one part of her ear to another. I was informed that was also removed after I taked to the coach.. I guess I am one of those that doesnot go looking for it but if I see it, I have to take care of it..
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I had my first HS game of the year (game #50) and pulled the coach aside as his players went off the field to ask him 'Why are #4's earlobes so shiny. Message received by the coach, no issue made, and the player stayed in the dugout, coach's decision. The hard part is noticing these things when working a NFHS game after so many in a rule set where you can some to the plate with more metal than a robot.
Now, what is the deal with all of the metal in your face? I guess I really am getting old when I do not get the piercing thing.:confused: |
Lip piercings, eye brow piercings and such are obviously dangerous and out in all rule sets.
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is a rubber band around a wrist jewelry?
IMO its not ... |
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Besides...what purpose does a rubber band around the wrist serve to a softball player? |
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ok, grossed myself out. |
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Until they can demonstrate that their arm hair needs to be tied back, I wouldn't allow the rubber bands, either. If it's purely for ornamentation (however stupid the ornamentation may be), it's jewelry. In this case, the ribbons actually serve a purpose of holding their hair back. Decorative, yes, but sometimes, so are the uniforms themselves. |
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I looked up what a barrette is.... but wtf about other types of hair "containment" type devices... those plastic half loop hair thingies? I "allowed" them in a FED game last night (i couldnt see them, d@mn field faces right into the setting sun) |
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Does it serve an actual purpose related to the game? (ie., does it keep her hair out of her face?) Is it purely for ornamentation? Does it have anything that, if broken or removed, could be dangerous to herself or others (such as beads on the ribbon she's using to hold her hair back)? Does it have anything that, even if kept in place, could be dangerous to herself or others (such as sharp edges or points)? Is it something that, if removed, would have an adverse impact on that player's performance? That last one is reaching, but something worth considering. If the answer is no, then your response is simple: take it off. |
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I agree in principle; just not in practice.
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I did have a catcher earlier this season who could have used the restraint on her arm hair, but I still wouldn't allow it in a NFHS game.
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I wish FED would address this properly.... you already got runners with a hard plastic helmet with a metal face shield and metal spikes/cleats on their feet.... God forbid a little plastic hair clip come undone and prick someone during a slide. :rolleyes:
whatever. Rant=off |
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I believe we were talking about kids' games. Therefore, yes, I will include that in my judgment. |
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As an umpire, I'm there for the game. I don't care if it is 10U or 50+ SP, "B" FP or A/Open SP, they all get the same game and general application of the appropriate rules. And before anyone starts, I am quite aware and supportive of certain allowances at different levels or ages. This is why you DON'T put your less-than-stellar or hardnose umpires on the 10U games. |
Even though the NFHS rules are intolerant of jewelry (where ASA includes umpire judgment regarding safety), I like the fact that the NFHS book places the responsibility squarely with the coach, the player, and the parents.
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Although like i explained to the coach.... hard is bad... soft is good.. he actually seemed to get it. (regarding hair containment devices) |
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I'm with Irish and CNB on this one. Fed's decision to allow HS players, many of whom are less-than-accomplished at sliding and avoiding being slid into, to wear metal cleats while banning earrings and cloth bracelets seems a little absurd. The decision to have their kids wear metal cleats lays with the coaches and parents. That's where the jewelry issue belongs as well.
And yes, if I see it, I'll have them remove it. I just don't see it. If it's pointed out to me by someone, I'll remove it since others can prove that I saw it. Until Fed requires us to perform a standardized pregame jewelry inspection, I will continue to not see it. I guess this makes me "THAT" umpire. I still don't see how this makes other's jobs more difficult. If I instruct a player to remove something, I could care less if a previous umpire didn't. I could care less if the coach complains about umpires' inconsistency on the matter. They will still have to remove it. It's not difficult to make them comply. |
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1. en loco parentis is historically the role of the schools and their representatives in dealing with school children, although that has been weakened by societal mores and recent legislation. 2. Title IX has significantly impacted how the schools deal with girls sports, rules, and facilities. #1 results in things like the jewlery rules. #2 results in things like the metal cleats rule. Some would argue that metal cleats are actually safer than plastic, but even if true, I suspect the overriding reason NFHS changed the rule to allow metal was "because they are legal for the boys." And, even baseball does not allow jewelry. NFHS Baseball Rule 1-5 Quote:
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love you man! (in a totally hetro way!) |
In my pregame, right after asking if they are legally and properly equipped, I specifically mention Livestrong bracelets and also that they make sure if they are wearing the hair bands that they keep them in their hair and not around their necks. It seems to help a lot. If asked if they can tape them I always give the right answer but if a girl comes out with band-aids over something I have never thought it was my duty to tell them to look under their band-aids. From my POV, I have asked if they are equipped properly and if they are purposefully hiding it then it puts it back on them.
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for proper equipment rests with coaches, student-athletes and their parents/guardians. "equipment" is on the players.... |
Far too many umpires spend way too much managing the people and not the game.
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So, in the spirit of this thread, I got to call my first jewelry violation yesterday.
The visiting coach pointed it out to me; if he hadn't I never would have seen the small ugly stud in the 2nd Baseman's eyebrow from behind the plate. ________ HEADSHOP |
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The coach got the message of the warning and yelled at all his players to double check. This was between innings so it didn't delay the game. Her dropping the earring on the ground as she took it out and the coach, BU, and F4 trying to find it did but only slightly. ________ Live sex webshows |
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Even though the coach yelled at his players, I guarantee you there was one who figured no one would ever notice hers. How do I know? I raised 2 daughters! :rolleyes: Mike, again, if it was a Fed game, there is no judgment about safety; jewelry goes. I'm sure the VC's motives were to disrupt, but it doesn't matter. |
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What's funny is that's the same coach and pitcher involved in the second meeting in the same inning debacle! No wonder they didn't win the state championship! It couldn't be a better coach or better young lady. He helps in ways no one knows because he has ordered me and a couple others to never tell...gives more help to RBI program than the Mariners or MLB! |
After reading this entire thread, I am convinced more and more these sort of things are why NYS does NOT subscribe to NFHS for softball.
For the record, here is the card we are required to read before every game: No jewelry, which includes visible body piercing shall be worn in any sport. Any piece of jewelry that is visible at the start of , or during, any contest, is in violation of the NYSPHSAA Jewelry Rule. Religious medals must be taped to the body snd under the uniform. Medical medals must be taped so they are visible. Soft, pliable barrettes are are permissable. Body gems are not (Italics were mine, btw) About once a year, I might have to remind someone about a forgotten necklace...and usually the kid is SO embarrassed about it....:o Also it is MANDATORY for us to check 'bats and hats' prior to a game - and again, all the teams are so used to it, they all have everything out for us to look when we get to the field for our pregame. The coaches like it, actually - occasionally we will find a helmet where the mask is a little loose, or something minor like that, and the coach who is usually busy as all heck appreciates it. Then EVERYbody's butt is covered.... New York can run SOME things pretty well at times.... |
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