Best piece of umpiring advice ever given

[DaveASA/FED]

Saw this question on another board (volleyball) and it made me wonder about the answers in the Softball world.

What is the best piece of advice you have ever gotten about officiating? What is something that you have taken to heart and has helped you along the way? Also since a lot of you have been mentors of younger umpires, what is some advice you have given that you have see make a huge impact on up and coming umpires?

[Andy]

The single best piece of advice regarding officiating any sport is in my signature line.

When I started as an official (basketball) 20-some years ago, I thought that I was the man after about two to three years. I knew the rules, I knew the mechanics, I knew the signals, I always made sure my uniform looked sharp.

An older official told me that every good official did those things - what seperates them from that point on is the little things you learn that help you look better and see things on the court better.

Since then, I have always strived to keep learning and trying to get better.

[Scooby]

Slow down. Work on your timing. It makes all the difference int he world.

[Stu Clary]

Know the rules.

[Linknblue]

People play the game. Treat them with respect even when the don't do it to you. You feel better, almost everyone else will see you as the better person and it will reap dividends the longer you umpire. They remember you down the road for your good acts.

[Dholloway1962]

Originally Posted by Stu Clary

Know the rules.

in addition....know how to apply the rules

[archangel]

Dont take abuse, but also dont take complaints personal. Its the uniform, not you....
Keep emotions out of it, make calls/rulings with proper mechanics, deal with the situation with professionism....

[argodad]

Two things from my first mentor:

"If you aren't enjoying yourself, you're doing something wrong."

"First base coaches always signal SAFE."

[Reffin' Sgt]

Slow down. During my first national tournament I had a play at 2nd base. I hesitated, pointed to the tag and was just about ready to call the runner out when I saw the ball on the ground, then I came up with the safe sign. The UIC commented to me about how well I looked on that play; never told him I was going to call him out, but it did reenforced the concept of slowing down and seeing the whole play.

[SWFLguy]

I agree whole heartedly on the timing of your calls. When I began doing this as a college kid in 1957, calling intramural ball, I thought you had to be quick and decisive. After a few "out/safe" calls and other messes I got myself in--I began to learn slow it down.