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Responding to sideline / bleacher chatter
I'm in my second year at the high school level and working the HL position. One thing I have trouble with is when I see a foul (e.g. a block in the back or facemask), sometimes I'll hesitate for a second or two before I throw my flag...like I've heard that you should do. But where I run into problems is when I'm going through that split-second decision time of whether I saw a foul for sure and if I should throw my flag, someone from the sideline or the stands will yell, "That's a block in the back!!" or "Facemask!". It pisses me off and makes me not want to throw my flag...especially since I don't want it to appear as if I'm throwing my flag in response to their shouts...I'm afraid that will just invite more of the same.
I know I should just call what I see, but what are your thoughts on how you mentally deal with that issue? |
Ignore them. Do not ever not throw your flag because they yelled and "pissed you off." That's quick way to a short end. Ignore them, ignore them, ignore them, ignore them. Are you starting to get the idea to ignore them?
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Agreed, you really just need to relax and go through your progression. Watch your key at the snap, follow your responsibilities during the play and if you see a foul committed that needs to be penalized, throw the flag.
If you're only in your second year, everything is still probably happening very quickly. As you gain more experience, the game will slow down and you will barely even hear the coaches and fans. |
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Two very simple rules that work for us:
1. If you THINK you saw a foul, then you didn't. 2. You get in more trouble dropping a flag than not. |
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Ignore them. Half the time, they don't know the rules anyway.
I'm a second year official myself. I've never held back from throwing a flag because of someone yelling for it. In fact, I've sometimes even found it helpful. I've found in my second year one of my biggest problems on the field is not having the confidence to throw the flag. Sometimes, a coach or fan yelling is enough to trigger me into thinking, "Yes, that was a foul. Yes, I do need to throw the flag." Other times, a flag from another official is a trigger. Other times, I will see a play and hear a call for a face mask, hold, false start, whatever. I have already decided in my head that it was not a foul. Their calling for a flag isn't going to make me change my mind. It's only when in the back of my head, I know it was a foul, but for some reason my conscious mind hasn't processed that yet. Finally, there are the times when the coaches, players or fans are calling for fouls and I don't even know which player they are talking about. I know that either a) there was a foul and I completely missed it because I was not in position, not looking where I should have been or was just screen out, or b) there was no foul and they were just whining. These are the ones that really drive me crazy, because I don't know which it is. Am I missing the call, or are they just whiny babies? Probably doesn't help my confidence problem. Fun story from earlier this year: A ran a toss sweep to my side, the B sideline. B coaches start yelling, "His mouthpiece is out! His mouthpiece is out!" I scan the players in front of me, looking for someone with their mouthpiece out, but trying to maintain focus on the blocking. B defender comes through and tackles A runner for a two or three yard loss. I hear a person behind me say, "He's not going to let you call that." That's true. But if I had seen it, I would have called it. The man on box (former official) said to me, "I know you had to have seen that." I said, "No. Who was it?" He said the runner was running this way with the ball in one hand and frantically trying to get his mouthpiece in with his other hand. He succeeded, because by the time he was tackled, he had it in. I spent my whole first year training myself not to look at the runner. Looks like I succeeded. I wonder, would coaches have more success in getting calls if they called out a number or position? "He's holding!" OK. Who is he? There are 22 guys out here. I'm probably not looking where you are. |
There are really only two answers to questions like, "Didn't you see that", or endless variations thereof. 1 is a simple "No", the second is "Yes", but didn't reach the same conclusion you might have. Most often, neither answer is worth sharing because neither one is what the questioner is looking for, so why bother.
If answering is not worth the bother, why pay any attention to the question? |
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Call what you see and don't let outside factors influence you. If you have a foul, throw the flag after all necessary considerations (point-of-attack, advantage/disadvantage, etc). If another official happens to throw the flag for the same foul, that is great, but you never need to see his flag to throw yours. If you think there was a foul but are not 110% sure, don't throw the flag. Phantom flags are worse than not throwing the flag at all. Also, coaches and fans are biased. All contact is DPI if they are on offense or OPI if they are on defense. They are the last people who should ever influence whether or not we throw the flag. |
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One was a DPI call that I was late on, not dropping my flag until I saw the back judge's. I don't know if anyone noticed other than me. The white hat did not say anything about it. He came up to the two of us and said, "Let me guess. Defense pass interference? Yeah, I could've called that one from the backfield." He's the instructor for new officials, so I think he would've said something had he noticed. A second was a hold. This one was rather quick. The coach yelled for holding, and the holding was still happening when I threw the flag. So it was probably unnoticed, as well. Mostly, I look back on the play and wonder if the coach hadn't have yelled, would I have threw the flag? I'm 100% sure I should have, but I'm not 100% sure I would have. And that is bothersome. The third play was another DPI call that I did not flag. The defender made contact, the ball fell incomplete, then I heard the coach yelling for DPI, then I saw the referee's flag come in. In this case, I did not drop my flag. I figured I looked bad enough as it was. I was very happy to see the referee's flag, and frustrated with myself that I had not dropped mine. Quote:
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Speaking as one who was warned early on about rabbit ears, if you stay with it long enough, you will eventually find the "zone" and tune all that out.
It helps to be married;) |
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I'd be real hesitant to throw that flag anyway...This is where some preventive officiating and talking to kids is valuable. |
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stegenref - I have the feeling that you still struggle with the rules. As your understanding of the application of the rules improves, I bet your observation to decision time will decrease. Until then... ignore the peanut gallery. |
If you never learn to tune out crowd or sideline comments or complaints, you'll have a short career in officiating. I had a hard time the first year or two and find myself perplexed by some of the comments that come out of the crowd or a coach's mouth. I do a good bit of AAYFL youth ball every Saturday in addition to our weekly assignments and I don't think I have to tell you how many parents think they know the rules better than our whole crew. If I had a $5 spot for every time I've heard some parent ot coach scream "HORSECOLLAR" this year, I could take off until Christmas.
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I hear it all the time, too. Kid gets pulled down by his shirt tail and Team A sideline is screaming for a horsecollar tackle penalty. |
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Similar situation this past Friday: Our R gives a preliminary signal for intentional grounding and the defensive coach is screaming and hollering that there is "no way in hell..." Oooops, learn the signals coach, I know they're similar but someone who does this for a living should be able to distinguish between roughing the passer and intentional grounding. |
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2 axioms of football officiating
1. Everybody wants a flag thrown, just not at them.
2. NEVER talk to anyone in the crowd. Nothing good can come from it. |
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I still get "thank you's" from that staff, due in large part because none of them had a set of seeds to set the parent straight. |
I have a very serious question to a very big problem i have with the advice "Ignore them!" Why do we as football officials choose to ignore them and just live with it? Why don't we enforce the code of ethics/sportsmanship?
I began my officiating as a baseball umpire and have worked every level of baseball and there we do not just ignore. We don't go looking for it, but when someone steps out of line, we respectfully and professionally are asked to help show them back into the light. So why is it different in football? I am in my 2nd year of football and spending a lot of time at the white hat and back judge positions and one of the reasons that I am doing well is my learned ability to effectivly communicate with coaches and players. There is nothing wrong with turning around durring dead ball time and telling the coach that each of you has a role, you''l do your best to do yours and it would be best that he stick to his. They usually get the hint and tactics like this have usually worked and been understood after a side-line warning, a 5, and or a 15. I am not saying just throw them, but if after speaking with them, it isn't hard to find a toe in the box. So, vet's please explain to me. Thanks. |
I was referring to ignoring the fans in the stands. As has been said on here, nothing good can come from arguing with them. As for a coach, if he is getting out of line, I'll let him know.
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Head coach: "OK" Assistant coach: "Muzzle me??? mpfhmpfhmfhmpmfhp" (Sounds emanating while head coach has his hands covering the mouth and pulling assistant away from me) Players: Laughing uproar Me (wondering): What a beautiful sound. :D |
I've found it's usually not a good idea to embarrass a coach in front of his players. You're never sure in what direction that might take you. However, I see no problem in quietly, and calmly, advising the coach as privately as possible that he has a choice. He can mind his manners and keep his comments to himself, or he can choose to say whatever he wants as loudly as he likes in the parking lot.
It's his choice and it's irrevocable. |
Ignoring and communication.
I'm an official who works for the Danish American Football Federation (DAFF). I was working white-hat at a 4-man crew in a 9-man football game. On a running play off tackle (TE) the ball-carrier was "trippet", meaning fell over a defensive linemans leg (did not go down, but could keep running). Offense sideline yelled out "TRIPPING!!" but I simply replied "no!" and continued officiating; whereafter the sideline went silent. After the game one of the coaches over and said "You had the comment of the game.." with a smile on his face. They had accepted that I had seen the action, but knew that it wasn't a foul (contrary to them). At the same time when you have the split-second decision "think-through" time that was discussed earlier, and decides to throw the flag just as a coach yells in you head, that there is a foul I usually reply "I HAVE seen it ,coach!" in a tone that says "back off". |
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