Something akin to the "spirit of the rules"? Sorry, I had to. ;)

You're exactly correct, but more importantly, like garlic, going overboard with something that's usually very beneficial, can ruin a meal or produce a disaster.

Can you show a reference where NF took a direct position on this? And all most states did was make the flag optional for officials. I do not know anyone that made it a requirement. But if you read the actual code, officials do not fit into the equation. And based on what I have read most people are not wearing the flag properly if you believe what borders are required or not.

Peace

The borders don't bother me, I don't think that's written anywhere; and I've heard different standards on those. Not that it "bothers" me, but the part that's "against the code" is wearing it on the left sleeve. It should be worn on the right, if it's worn.

We can only wear the flag on the right shoulder because a state patch is on the left shoulder. The common flag worn (in football mind you) is the golden bordered flag. I was told (but never shown) that this was not proper because of the way the flag is going if there was a pole attached to the flag. Apparently the flag is "retreating" instead of going forward (in the same direction you are walking for example). I honestly do not know the answer to this, but this is more reason I do not put a flag on any other officiating uniform. It seems like people cannot agree on which is proper and my state has not told us either way which is allowed or not.

Peace

This is the same reason I don't ear a flag as well. It seems that wearing a flag poses more problems than choosing not to, so I don't.

Be honest, would it make any difference to you if I had Betsy Ross swear an affidavit? The best reference I have, which is the only one I need, is that my chapter interpreter, back in 2001, informed our chapter that the NYS Association had decided that all member officials would wear a small American flag in the center of their back, 2-2.5 inches below the collar for varsity football games, to show respect and appreciation for the American nation and the military who would stand in it's defense.

To this day, we took him at his word. There were no investigations, no wrtten orders, no verifications we all just went along with the program, as he explained it. To most, it seemed like a good idea and still does. At that time, and since, it has caused zero problems in my chapter, that I'm aware of. Each year our Secretary/ Treasurer has a supply of little flags he sells to members (for new shirts) at about $2.-$2.5/flag.

I don't agree that this display violates any intention of any flag code, and reject any suggestion that such a display is disrespectful, because I don't believe any disrespect was intended nor does anyone wearing these patches intend them to be a sign of disrespect.

I'm not aware of any regulations regarding wearing the flag that were written in response to 9/11/01, and that all regulations written before that date obviously did not consider that event, so do not relate to it.

I have absolutely no intention of, or interest in, persuading you to alter your perception of how, where or when to wear an American flag on your uniform, or person, nor do I have any interest in your interpretations of rules governing how, where or when I choose to wear, or display, one.

Honestly, I do not care what others do. I do not wear one outside of my football crew. And if my crew said tomorrow “Take them off,” I would not object. It just is not something I want to fight either way because it really has nothing to do with what I am wearing the uniform for. And 9-11 did not mean the same thing to everyone in this country (I know that is hard to believe for you). And if you were patriotic before, why do you need a flag to represent this after the fact when we fought a war in Europe and other events that involved our country and military. I think you need to get people to honor the flag during the National Anthem first before I worry about what I have on a non-governmental uniform. If I was a Police officer or solider I would have absolutely no objection to wearing a flag. I am glad this is an option and I use that option when I can.

Peace

This really isn't all that complex. If you work in an area that provides a choice, as to wearing a flag or not, then everyone can choose whether to do so, or not.

If you work in an area that madates wearing a flag, you still get to make a choice, whether or not you elect to comply with the mandate. There may be consequences to choosing non-compliance, but that's all part of choosing.

The important thing to remember is that none of us are competent to make either choice for anyone else, or question the choices others might make.

We realize it is not that complicated and that is why many have a choice and exersise that choice.

Peace