fullor30 wroteThis harmless phrase has become nails on a chalkboard to me.
I'm tempted in pregame to tell 'em mention 'and one' and you get banged.
But you nailed it, it's harmless. Players say this to one another in pickup games. Really got nothing to do with the ref's. I say it's just another part of the game. In fact, it only becomes a big deal if YOU make it a big deal.
With that being said, if someone And-1 me and then proceeds to tell me how he got foul, show me where he got, etc. That's a different story. Learn to recognize the difference and penalize as such you see fit. If they and-1 me AND then take they azz on down the court, got no problem with that.