mplagrow wroteAm I being too condescending?
I'm not being condescending (talking down to you). I'm simply stating the fact that we're discussing a freshman game. If the issue was missing the first round of your varsity post-season tournament, then I'm with you. But this is a simple rule screw-up by a freshman ref who obviously doesn't know any better. Who cares? The more important issue is the behavior that generated the (admittedly) deserved T. Instead of worrying that he didn't get a horn at 20 seconds, he should be concerned about addressing the behavior. Yes, the ref screwed up. But that's not the primary issue, as far as I'm concerned.
OklahomaRef wroteIt is my job to try and win whatever I have to do (within the rules).
But you didn't do that. You were a wise-@@@ and got whacked. Eliminate that, and there's no second T.
I am trying to advance, just like I did when I was officiating.
I absolutely understand that. I'd be surprised if you weren't. 🙂
If you as a coach expect your players to give you everything they have, you have to do the same.
Agreed, but irrelevant to the situation of being tossed.
As for why do I care, because I care about my players
Your players would've been fine for one game. You probably care more about the game than they do. Again, not being condescending, but this is a freshman game. They would learn just as much from seeing how you serve a one-game suspension that you didn't deserve as they would from hearing you coach for 32 minutes.
Having said all that, I think it's appropriate that you were not punished for a mis-application of the rule. If the powers-that-be said that their hands were tied and you had to serve it, I would have no problem with that, either. But again, I think the larger issue is not the second T, but the first one.