The Official Forum  

Go Back   The Official Forum > Basketball
Register FAQ Community Calendar Today's Posts Search

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Rate Thread Display Modes
  #1 (permalink)  
Old Wed Mar 05, 2014, 12:44pm
Official Forum Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2010
Location: 3 hrs east of the western time zone
Posts: 895
Quote:
Originally Posted by BadNewsRef View Post
I'm here to provide a service. Nothing else to do now that my season is over thanks to one more snowfall.
Your not at RMC or Va Wesleyan this weekend ??????

Someone needs to sit at the table
__________________
Go ugly early, avoid the rush !!!!
Reply With Quote
  #2 (permalink)  
Old Wed Mar 05, 2014, 01:48pm
Courageous When Prudent
 
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Hampton Roads, VA
Posts: 14,951
Quote:
Originally Posted by Multiple Sports View Post
Your not at RMC or Va Wesleyan this weekend ??????

Someone needs to sit at the table
If someone calls and asks, I'll be there. Actually got offered last year but already had tickets to see Bill Maher with my wife, so had to decline. Maybe that was my one and only chance.

Don't they need someone to sit at UMW also?
__________________
A-hole formerly known as BNR
Reply With Quote
  #3 (permalink)  
Old Wed Mar 05, 2014, 02:46pm
Official Forum Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: NB/PEI, Canada
Posts: 788
Coaches of physical teams that are vocal tend to fall into 1 of 3 categories in my experience.

1 - Howlers. They don't know a lot about basketball, generally coach at lower levels, and basically found/recruited/ended up with athletes that they want to be athletic and stronger. Their entire coaching strategy is play harder and they think getting louder and more fired up themselves fires up their kids. They are on their kids just wanting them to out work everyone and on officials so the kids/parents see them defending their kids and trying to get the game played they way they expect.

2 - Workers. The physical play is by design. They want to intimidate and dictate the tempo/style of game because they feel like it helps them win. The coach is vocal because he wants his kids working their angle and feels like working the officials is part of the job too.

3 - Marty McFly's - They are more concerned about a time past or future for their team then they are with you and that moment. They may have only had officials that let more go and now feel like you are screwing their kids, or they may in fact know better but understand that once your not in the gym for their next game, or on the road, or in a big game for them its probably not going to be called as tightly as this game and doesn't want his/her kids to change the way they play. So the coach is either vocally upset because you are the abnormality or wants the kids to know this isn't something they are concerned about happening regularly.

In all three cases it not about u. Its about their knowledge or lack there of, their priority or lack there of, or a game/experience that isn't about the job you are currently doing. In any case don't take it personally because its not and manage the game they way you and your association want a game managed. If they cross the line take care of buisness if they don't or its not worth it don't sweat the small stuff.
__________________
Coach: Hey ref I'll make sure you can get out of here right after the game!

Me: Thanks, but why the big rush.

Coach: Oh I thought you must have a big date . . .we're not the only ones your planning on F$%&ing tonite are we!
Reply With Quote
Reply

Bookmarks


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Physical tests... bainsey Basketball 99 Thu Aug 25, 2011 10:52am
Not scheduling certain teams/coaches dan74 Basketball 34 Wed Feb 13, 2008 01:09pm
Physical Abuse aussie_ref Basketball 4 Sun Jun 05, 2005 11:41am
Non-Physical Threat hab_in_exile General / Off-Topic 1 Thu Jan 01, 2004 08:37pm
Coach got physical!! rainmaker Basketball 7 Mon Feb 12, 2001 05:01pm


All times are GMT -5. The time now is 07:54am.



Search Engine Friendly URLs by vBSEO 3.3.0 RC1