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One reason why I asked how to deal with a overly vocal spectator that is known to be a coach is cause of knowing a person that fits the description. (Watches HS games, but is a JH/MS coach)
Let's just say all the officials that do the games he watches, are very thick skinned as the gentleman in question complains about, almost, every non-call loud enough for the whole gym to hear. |
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A JH coach watching HS games? I wouldn't even know he was a coach.
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Secondly, with him being a coach, acting at the time as a spectator, he should be setting an example to others around him. There is a possibility I'll be seeing him more, if asked to assist with the JH/MS table operations. So I can see if his attitude is different as a coach, compared to being a spectator. |
In your case, I wouldn't know. I agree with your second point, but it's not the officials' job to enforce manners. As for your final point: I would be shocked to find he isn't an a$s as a coach.
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Take A Seat On The Cold Bus, Coach ...
A friend of mine was officiating a junior varsity game in which the varsity coach was sitting on the junior varsity bench. This particular coach was not particularly well liked by officials (real jerk), and his fellow coaches (state association infractions, recruiting, etc.).
This varsity coach, as a member of junior varsity bench, said the wrong words to the junior varsity official, who tossed him from the junior varsity game. The way things work around here, he was not allowed to coach until he sat out a game at the level at which he was tossed, so he had to sit out his varsity game that night, and the next junior varsity game, before being allowed to coach his varsity team. My buddy got a standing ovation at the next officials' meeting. |
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Secondly, we cannot worry about the example a fan is setting for others around them. If it really is a problem then the other fans (which includes parents) should address the problem to game or school administration. Why do you think we should be so concerned about it? |
Maybe the FED should adopt the rule we have in our local kids rec league regarding this. We have a Board member present at all games. If anyone in the stands makes disparaging remarks about the referees, they get one warning to zip it. If they do it again, they are tossed out of the gym.
All coaches are notified of this policy at our pre-season coaches meeting and are instructed to notify all parents. BTW - if a coach gets tossed for any reason, it's an automatic suspension and they must appeal to the Board to get reinstated. Ya' know - in all my years of being associated with this league, I can't remember even once that a coach got tossed while just being a spectator at a game. |
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