AAU Disease

[t-bone]

I officiated a large tourney recently and it was an abortion. Coaches, one a former NBA player, screaming at their players from the tip off on, parents unruly and unsportsmanlike, yelling at their kids and moaning at every call. Are these kids having any fun at all? Where does this end? As an official I attempt to promote sportsmanship and will not allow certain behaivor but as a parent I'm shocked at what I see. Any thoughts?