Your thoughts - When to say NO

[PIAA REF]

Stir: I am the rules Interpreter for my chapter: In Pennsylvania we have a state interpreter, district interpreters and chapter interpreters. I am responsible for conducting the rule and mechanic meetings that we have. We have 16 meetings throughout the year, All officials must attend 6 of them. We also have another one that I conduct that is mandated for all refs and all head varsity coaches. IF a ref misses they cannot ref the following year, if a coach misses, the school is fined 200 dollars.