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OT--I didn't like this
This is a Men's League Softball story, but I think no matter what sport we officiate, we can relate.
I play in a Men's 12-inch softball league, and in our game tonight, the umpire did something I never want to see again. There was a play at first where the first baseman may or may not have had his foot on the base when the throw came from shortstop. Our runner was called out. Apparently someone said something to the umpire from the dugout, because he walked into our dugout, sat down on our bench, and yelled "Play ball guys, apparently there's a better view from in here!" Now it's not a really competitive league, we're out there to have fun. He was really good all night long, hustled quite a bit, was generally the best ump we've had all season. That action, though, irked me the rest of the game. I know it's just a fun league, but there is no reason, at any level of sports, do I think an official should show up one of the teams like that. A simple "That's enough guys" would have done fine, in my opinion. As much as we want to say clever, funny things sometimes, there's a level of professionalism that I think any official should uphold. There's a way to be friendly and approachable without showing up the players. |
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Just trying to find a reference point for the basketball-only folks. |
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I also umpire a "fun" co-ed softball league, six games per week every summer. There are some things you're going to do that sit right with some, but not with all. I don't know if I would go into a dugout, but that's just me.
It certainly was a weird night last night, though. In my eight years, I've had to toss someone only once. Last night, I had two ejections for cursing at me. Blame it on the full moon, I guess. |
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Let me rephrase. While it's not the most competitive league, it's still taken seriously. Like I said in the OP, there's other ways to go about doing what he did. I felt it was unnecessary to let the entire park know he was calling us out. |
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Our association has a Code of Conduct that very explicitly states that officials should never engage in these wise-azz exchanges with anyone, no matter the level being played or the circumstances involved. It's quite simply a matter of professionalism. We expect a helluva lot more from our officials than we do from the coaches, players and fans. If you have a problem with someone, deal with it calmly and professionally. |
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This line is the key to it all. |
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Another FEEBLE attempt at humor. |
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There was a fan/dad giving the refs a hard time. This observer challenged him to come down and ref the game. The fan, surprisingly, took the challenge. The observer then shadowed the fan while the fan tried to ref and more or less mocked him rather than instructing or critiquing like the "real" refs. To say the least, it was highly unprofessional on many levels. |
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A lot of the little comments that posters put on this board are so outrageously unprofessional that they could only be used in a non-association type youth league. Saying that type of thing to any HS (or higher) coach would be the end of their officiating in that association. |
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There is no need to ever take any crap out on the court, but there also is a proper way for us to deal with the crap. JMO. |
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The situation is the same. No matter the sport or level, what he did was unprofessional, IMO. |
One of the best features of this forum...
... is the proffering of suggested smart-*** comments we so dearly wish we could utter that would just be hi-larious! But alas, they simply remain only in the cranium or uttered under the breath.
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The fact that it "worked" does NOT justify unprofessional conduct from an official. The ends do not justify the means. Like it or not, we are held to a higher standard. To do things like this umpire did - or make the comments that Mr. Padgett likes to make - is contrary to the officials code of ethics that we all agree to abide by when we put on the uniform. and believe me, I have learned the hard way that - in the long run - these types of antics don't work. They will always come back to haunt you at some future time. |
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1. It's not what i meant to say. 2. It's what i actually did say. 3. It's unprofessional, even if I can understand the impulse. I still stand by the fact that it's more unprofessional for an official to participate in such a contest and publicly critique the umpire. The OP didn't actually admit to such, but I'm inferring it from his post. If he did not, and only allowed his teammates to engage in such behavior, then it's slightly less unprofessional so I will slighly apologize. |
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I slightly accept your slight apology:p |
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I'm a little testy about this subject this summer due to a situation here. 1. U (2 man) makes OOB call on end line opposite table in the 2nd half, ball to the defensive team. 2. R2 (for next game) is walking along the same endline, en route to the table to watch the rest of this game. 3. Coach of offensive team complains about call, ending with "Everyone saw it but you." 4. R steps in and warns coach to cool it. 5. R2, now sitting behind the offensive bench, exclaims "that was a crappy call." 6. R calls T on coach, as the comment came just as he turned away. 7. R retracts T after finding it was the official who made the comment. While this situation was made worse by the fact that the official was wearing his stripes, in my opinion, the worst thing an official can do is bad mouth another official during a contest; especially when those around him know he's an official, regardless of the sport. |
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No I was not one of the players yelling at the umpire, because I couldn't tell one way or the other. The only time in this league I've ever spoken directly to an umpire about a call is this situation: My team is playing defense, and the batter hits a ball down the right field line. It falls in, really close to the line, probably right on the line. The umpire gives no signal. No point, no verbalization, nothing. I spoke to him after the game and asked him to do something next time so we know what's going on. |
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That's an instant and well-deserved suspension in my association as soon as we find out about it. Aamof I don't know of any officiating group that wouldn't act somehow on a situation like that. Did anybody report this one? Or were there other factors involved? |
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In my experience, an umpire who doesn't signal is a newer umpire, so he is might not have seen it. |
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Originally Posted by bas2456 http://forum.officiating.com/images/...s/viewpost.gif I know that nothing is said on a fair ball, but I was always taught that an umpire should just point to fair territory, not verbalizing "fair ball" Quote:
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Another one I like is, "I don't think I saw the whole play," which provides a report about me rather than a comment on him or his call. |
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Prolly so. The ump seems to have lowered himself to your level. But you seem intent on ignoring the behavior of your teammates. I wonder why that is. :confused: |
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