I have finally had it and realize its not worth it anymore

[mutantducky]

I would never ref at that level. If you can then props to you. 6th grade and above for me. I played in some top level youth leagues that made me a good player but until 4th/5th grade it was never serious.

[Texas Aggie]

I was not at the game

After reading this, the letter should have been thrown in the trash. If you weren't there, I'm not interested in your opinion even assuming I would be at any point.

[ILRef80]

Sheesh. Hang in there. It's really sad when adults do things like this.

Just stop working that level of ball. Although, if I already had a game scheduled, I'd still work that game. Don't allow a guy who wasn't even there to bully you if you still want to work the league.

Also, the coach needs to learn the difference between "could care less" and "couldn't care less".

[bbcoach7]

this "coach," wasn't even present at the game, and he wrote a letter complaining about your refereeing? I believe the word for that kind of writting would be fiction.

I'd have an issue with the admin who bothered to make you aware of this letter. Should have been round filed.

Don't let an idiot like this "coach" get under your skin. He doesn't deserve the thought required for you to have a resentment towards him. From your description, kids and this youth program are fortunate to have a game official available to them who is as thoughtful and considerate of the kids as you are. It would be a shame for the program to lose you over this idiot.