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eemich10 Wed Feb 11, 2009 12:12pm

Gave my first ever T last night...
 
I'm a second year official, working with a strong first year. G JV game. Visiting coach lossing by about 18-20 in the 3rd. Complaining about other official not calling any fouls (really not a rough game at all, just sloppy).

He loses his mind again, I'm trail in front of his bench. I tell him, "Coach that's enough."

He responds "I'll say when that's enough"

Bang.

First T.

Warranted?

deecee Wed Feb 11, 2009 12:16pm

yes. And you could have added, "Let me help you out, you beligerant @#$@#$"

J/k about the second part. Just seat belt him and bring in the reigns.

Adam Wed Feb 11, 2009 12:16pm

Yep.

JugglingReferee Wed Feb 11, 2009 12:16pm

Yup.

Mark Padgett Wed Feb 11, 2009 12:16pm

Congrats. You're not a maiden anymore. :)

http://www.istockphoto.com/file_thum...ted_cherry.jpg

vbzebra Wed Feb 11, 2009 12:22pm

Absolutely:D

williebfree Wed Feb 11, 2009 12:25pm

Congrats eemich10!!!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Mark Padgett (Post 578085)
Congrats. You're not a maiden anymore. :)

http://www.istockphoto.com/file_thum...ted_cherry.jpg

Absolutely the correct call....
I guess this puts new meaning to "Cherry" T stripe!

Rich Wed Feb 11, 2009 12:32pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by eemich10 (Post 578080)
I'm a second year official, working with a strong first year. G JV game. Visiting coach lossing by about 18-20 in the 3rd. Complaining about other official not calling any fouls (really not a rough game at all, just sloppy).

He loses his mind again, I'm trail in front of his bench. I tell him, "Coach that's enough."

He responds "I'll say when that's enough"

Bang.

First T.

Warranted?

Not only warranted, but in a few years you'll find that this one was easy.

Man In Blue Wed Feb 11, 2009 12:42pm

I had a streak of 3 nights in a row calling T's. I was late in the 4th Qtr of the soph game and no T's. I make the mistake of saying to my self during a time out the streak is over.

Next play out of the time out a player reaches and slaps the are of the defender. I whistle the foul and the next thing I know the player slams the ball on the floor. The ball easily goes ten feet in the air.

The streak continues...

Oh, the best part is that the slap is the 7th team foul and the T is 8th. So we shoot the bonus, the T and give the ball to the other team. Pretty big penalty. Hope she learned something.

Adam Wed Feb 11, 2009 12:43pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Man In Blue (Post 578099)
I had a streak of 3 nights in a row calling T's. I was late in the 4th Qtr of the soph game and no T's. I make the mistake of saying to my self during a time out the streak is over.

Next play out of the time out a player reaches and slaps the are of the defender. I whistle the foul and the next thing I know the player slams the ball on the floor. The ball easily goes ten feet in the air.

The streak continues...

Oh, the best part is that the slap is the 7th team foul and the T is 8th. So we shoot the bonus, the T and give the ball to the other team. Pretty big penalty. Hope she learned something.

Wasn't the slap a team control foul?

deecee Wed Feb 11, 2009 12:46pm

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Originally Posted by Snaqwells (Post 578101)
Wasn't the slap a team control foul?

thats what i thought.

JugglingReferee Wed Feb 11, 2009 12:50pm

HS has been pretty tame lately.

Men's league last night: blue has the ball with seconds left in Q2. "8... 7... 6... 5..." And then there's a steal by white. "4... 3-2-1." White jacks up what would be described as a 4-point shot.

Tweet. Unsporting.

Scrapper1 Wed Feb 11, 2009 12:56pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Snaqwells (Post 578101)
Wasn't the slap a team control foul?

Coming "out of a time out", it might have been during the throw-in.

Adam Wed Feb 11, 2009 01:04pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scrapper1 (Post 578112)
Coming "out of a time out", it might have been during the throw-in.

Perhaps, but since the player then slammed the ball down; it was either after the throwin or it was the thrower (always possible.)

Adam Wed Feb 11, 2009 01:05pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by JugglingReferee (Post 578107)
HS has been pretty tame lately.

Men's league last night: blue has the ball with seconds left in Q2. "8... 7... 6... 5..." And then there's a steal by white. "4... 3-2-1." White jacks up what would be described as a 4-point shot.

Tweet. Unsporting.

For what?

Ref Ump Welsch Wed Feb 11, 2009 01:41pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by JugglingReferee (Post 578107)
HS has been pretty tame lately.

Men's league last night: blue has the ball with seconds left in Q2. "8... 7... 6... 5..." And then there's a steal by white. "4... 3-2-1." White jacks up what would be described as a 4-point shot.

Tweet. Unsporting.

The old barking dog trick?

JugglingReferee Wed Feb 11, 2009 02:02pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Snaqwells (Post 578120)
For what?

Simulating the end of a period.

Adam Wed Feb 11, 2009 02:22pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by JugglingReferee (Post 578175)
Simulating the end of a period.

I'm confused. I thought it was the end of the period.

Mark Padgett Wed Feb 11, 2009 02:27pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Man In Blue (Post 578099)
Next play out of the time out a player reaches and slaps the are of the defender.

I know you didn't mean "are". Did you mean "arm" or "arse"? :confused:

JugglingReferee Wed Feb 11, 2009 02:31pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Snaqwells (Post 578180)
I'm confused. I thought it was the end of the period.

When white stole the ball, blue continued to count down, but instead of "3... 2... 1..." with the ellipses representing 1 second of elapsed time, they went "3-2-1", all within about a half-second.

That caused white to shoot the ball prematurely, when in reality, they still had ~ 2 seconds left.

There is no visible clock in men's leagues games here; the league doesn't get to use the HS clocks. They play running time 25min halves and stop clock in the last 2 minutes if the gap is < 16 points.

Forksref Wed Feb 11, 2009 02:44pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by JugglingReferee (Post 578188)
When white stole the ball, blue continued to count down, but instead of "3... 2... 1..." with the ellipses representing 1 second of elapsed time, they went "3-2-1", all within about a half-second.

That caused white to shoot the ball prematurely, when in reality, they still had ~ 2 seconds left.

There is no visible clock in men's leagues games here; the league doesn't get to use the HS clocks. They play running time 25min halves and stop clock in the last 2 minutes if the gap is < 16 points.

If that warrants a "T", then I think you are looking for trouble.

eemich10 Wed Feb 11, 2009 02:45pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by richmsn (Post 578095)
not only warranted, but in a few years you'll find that this one was easy.

trust me, it was easy!

JugglingReferee Wed Feb 11, 2009 03:06pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Forksref (Post 578189)
If that warrants a "T", then I think you are looking for trouble.

That might be true in other games, but not men's league games here.

Chess Ref Wed Feb 11, 2009 03:09pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by eemich10 (Post 578080)
I'm a second year official, working with a strong first year. G JV game. Visiting coach lossing by about 18-20 in the 3rd. Complaining about other official not calling any fouls (really not a rough game at all, just sloppy).

He loses his mind again, I'm trail in front of his bench. I tell him, "Coach that's enough."

He responds "I'll say when that's enough"

Bang.

First T.

Warranted?

No brainer. Automatic. Good call.

Raymond Wed Feb 11, 2009 03:20pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by JugglingReferee (Post 578188)
When white stole the ball, blue continued to count down, but instead of "3... 2... 1..." with the ellipses representing 1 second of elapsed time, they went "3-2-1", all within about a half-second.

That caused white to shoot the ball prematurely, when in reality, they still had ~ 2 seconds left.

There is no visible clock in men's leagues games here; the league doesn't get to use the HS clocks. They play running time 25min halves and stop clock in the last 2 minutes if the gap is < 16 points.


Do you think maybe you left out a little bit of info in your first post? ;)

JugglingReferee Wed Feb 11, 2009 03:43pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by BadNewsRef (Post 578206)
Do you think maybe you left out a little bit of info in your first post? ;)

I thought about it, but I am working at the same time, and was hoping that the ... and - would show the difference in the counting down. Even with a visible clock, there is no need to attempt to deceive. Just mho.

bbcoach7 Wed Feb 11, 2009 03:48pm

How 'bout now Coach?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by eemich10 (Post 578080)
I'm a second year official, working with a strong first year. G JV game. Visiting coach lossing by about 18-20 in the 3rd. Complaining about other official not calling any fouls (really not a rough game at all, just sloppy).

He loses his mind again, I'm trail in front of his bench. I tell him, "Coach that's enough."

He responds "I'll say when that's enough"

Bang.

First T.

Warranted?

What an idiot. Whack him and ask, "How about now Coach, is that enough or would you like one more?" He wants to be the decider. LOL:D

Raymond Wed Feb 11, 2009 04:29pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by JugglingReferee (Post 578222)
I thought about it, but I am working at the same time, and was hoping that the ... and - would show the difference in the counting down. Even with a visible clock, there is no need to attempt to deceive. Just mho.

Must be a Canadian thing. :D

Or is it Canadien?

Scrapper1 Wed Feb 11, 2009 06:18pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by eemich10 (Post 578080)
He loses his mind again, I'm trail in front of his bench. I tell him, "Coach that's enough."

He responds "I'll say when that's enough"

Bang.

Last month, I had a coach who didn't like a call. Gave him a brief explanation as I went by.

Him: "That was horrible!"
Me: "That's enough, Coach."
Him: "That was horrible!"
Me: "I've heard enough, Coach!" (Showing the stop sign.)
Him: "Yeah, I've heard enough, too. And that was horrible!"

Tweet!

After the game, my partner said how much he enjoyed the whole exchange. His favorite part was my two-fingered T signal. He got a kick out of that, for some reason.

So to answer your original question, good T.

Berkut Wed Feb 11, 2009 09:24pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scrapper1 (Post 578300)
Last month, I had a coach who didn't like a call. Gave him a brief explanation as I went by.

Him: "That was horrible!"
Me: "That's enough, Coach."
Him: "That was horrible!"
Me: "I've heard enough, Coach!" (Showing the stop sign.)
Him: "Yeah, I've heard enough, too. And that was horrible!"

Tweet!

After the game, my partner said how much he enjoyed the whole exchange. His favorite part was my two-fingered T signal. He got a kick out of that, for some reason.

So to answer your original question, good T.

You are more tolerant than I am.

I really mean it when I say something like "That's enough."

Scrapper1 Wed Feb 11, 2009 09:54pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Berkut (Post 578353)
You are more tolerant than I am.

That's possible. I'm pretty comfortable with my tolerance level. I give a few T's a season, but I'm not generally looking for them.

Quote:

I really mean it when I say something like "That's enough."
I feel like I just got slapped on the wrist or something. For me, "that's enough" does not equal "one more word and it's a T". It's basically a less-than-subtle message to back off. I would rather give the coach a chance to back off than give the T. If he/she decides not to back down, then it'll be clear why they get the T.

Berkut Thu Feb 12, 2009 04:56pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scrapper1 (Post 578364)
That's possible. I'm pretty comfortable with my tolerance level. I give a few T's a season, but I'm not generally looking for them.

I hope none of us are looking for them.

Quote:

I feel like I just got slapped on the wrist or something. For me, "that's enough" does not equal "one more word and it's a T". It's basically a less-than-subtle message to back off. I would rather give the coach a chance to back off than give the T. If he/she decides not to back down, then it'll be clear why they get the T.
I guess for me "That's enough" means just that - enough. Not "That is almost enough, go ahead and repeat yourself one more time but no more!".

I mean, I just GAVE him the chance to back off, didn't I? By saying "Thats enough" rather than just banging him?

I am sure there is more than one "right" answer here, so I don't want to suggest that I am certainly right - but I guess I just don't understand the idea that my job is to try to convince a coach to NOT get himself the T, and provide him more than one opportunity to go back to coaching. I wonder if we don't just encourage the same behavior since they tend to know we don't REALLY mean it when we say "That's enough".

I am relatively new to this (just a few years experience at the JV level), so perhaps as I do this more I will become more tolerant?

Rich Thu Feb 12, 2009 06:15pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Berkut (Post 578773)
I hope none of us are looking for them.



I guess for me "That's enough" means just that - enough. Not "That is almost enough, go ahead and repeat yourself one more time but no more!".

I mean, I just GAVE him the chance to back off, didn't I? By saying "Thats enough" rather than just banging him?

I am sure there is more than one "right" answer here, so I don't want to suggest that I am certainly right - but I guess I just don't understand the idea that my job is to try to convince a coach to NOT get himself the T, and provide him more than one opportunity to go back to coaching. I wonder if we don't just encourage the same behavior since they tend to know we don't REALLY mean it when we say "That's enough".

I am relatively new to this (just a few years experience at the JV level), so perhaps as I do this more I will become more tolerant?

No, you'll just find more coaches understand what "enough" means. Or you'll find the right thing to say between "that's enough" and whacking him that really does shut him up. Sometimes people do go to the "that's enough" card a bit too quickly, not saying you or anyone else in this thread does.

icallfouls Thu Feb 12, 2009 09:08pm

a little off topic
 
I am up to 8 T's this year. A bit on the high side for me.

2 - College - 1 ast coach, 1 player
6 - HS - 1 coach, 5 players - includes a double T last night for 2 players squaring up and mouthing off with chest to chest contact, followed by the classic line "you wanna piece of me?"

A few more games to go...

Juulie Downs Sat Feb 14, 2009 04:57pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by icallfouls (Post 578852)
t for 2 players squaring up and mouthing off with chest to chest contact, followed by the classic line "you wanna piece of me?"

I hope you gave that one for it's being hackneyed and trite. Sheez, kid, get a little creative here!

mbyron Sat Feb 14, 2009 10:19pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Juulie Downs (Post 579488)
I hope you gave that one for it's being hackneyed and trite. Sheez, kid, get a little creative here!

Hackneyed AND trite? Whoa. :D

snorman75 Sun Feb 15, 2009 03:29am

Congrats on your first T

Now you got to toss a coach

Then a fan

Then a whole crowd

I have done all but one, and surprise it is the coach.

P.S. I have thrown a Grandmother out of the gym, a 70+ too.

P.S.S. whole crowd was in softball, and I made them move outside the outfield fence.

BillyMac Sun Feb 15, 2009 11:48am

More Importantly, Was She A GMILF ???
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by snorman75 (Post 579577)
I have thrown a Grandmother out of the gym.

I hope that she didn't break her hip when she landed.


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