Mark Padgett wroteNot enforcing rules just confuses them and causes problems for the league, especially for the next official that has their game and has the same situation come up.
I absolutely agree with this, but sometimes struggle.
Along with my JV/MS circuit I ref in two Youth Rec Leagues. In one league I am the only state certified official and in the other I am one of only a few.
As I am one of the only ones who knows most of the rules (I'm not as good as some of you guys yet) and tries to enforce them, I sometimes confuse the coaches and players by enforcing the proper rules while others don't - i.e., earrings, necklaces, hair clips, shirts tucked, time outs, travel, back court, intentional foul, etc. and not enforcing the myths i.e. - reach, moving screen, over the back, etc. (you know, the good ones) while other less experienced refs continue to perpetuate the myths.
While I am sometimes "the bad guy", I believe most of the coaches/players appreciate me explaining the proper rules to them when there is an issue (thanks Forum members).