Nope, we ain't part of the show. This happened to a partner
of mine and he pointed at the player and said "You just play
your damn game and keep me out of it!" Wiped the smile
right off the kids face, he spent the next 10 minutes
apologizing to both of us. [/B][/QUOTE]

I don't believe this is on the same level, this sounds more like somebody who is not a very good game manager. Language is a big part of it and he is obviously out of line. Using vulgar language would wipe the smile off of anyones face. I appreciate your feedback but I don't believe this is even in the same picture when somebody uses that demeanor.

Let the T go. Maybe at the next two shot foul, step in the lane & let everybody know that the high 5 is not to be repeated by either team. That way both teams know the same info. Of course the personality of the game would determine how serious your response should be.

I'm sure you have worked some games that are very tight & some more relaxed. Both type of games can be competive & close scores.

This is my 1st "official" year. After one very fast paced & close game a fan / parent said I seemed to be getting a workout. I agreed & said I enjoyed the game. She replied that I seemed to really be enjoying myself. She was right.