Talking to coaches...

[w_sohl]

How does one go about talking to the coaches during the game? What I mean is, a coach is obviously upset about a call and I know that if I explain it to him/her that they will cool down. I know I can't do this every time or I would just need to take a seat next to the coach and call the game from the bench, but I find myself pretending to not hear the coach all of the time and I want to be more interactive at the right times. Is this something that you eventually just get a feel for? Is it something that happens once you have done certain leagues for a while and the coaches start to get to know you? Just curious.