Two players in the post area, jostling some for position

This is what you should be talking to them about - "move your feet, get out of his back, get the knee out of there..." that is what you are addressing here.

Suddenly there are slaps exchanged between the two players. (On the arms.)


Now they are beyond listening to what you are saying - the double foul is the perfect call here especially if it is early in the game - this is a message foul each way, I'm telling you to knock it off and you start slapping each other D#$% Straight this is gonna get called.