Would you have T ed ?

[Philz]

WOW! I cant believe the response I got from this. This is the first time I got a chance to check it out since I posted it....guess I've been working too many games (48 games since 1 feb 07). I think oldschool is the only one that kinda understood what I felt at the time. I know all about integrity of the game and so on and even when I talked to my ref buddies most said I should have "T" ed him, But if you saw one of my replies I also mentioned I played and coached also and have said stuff out of frustration regerting what I said and Oldschool caught that part. He also caught the part on how I mentioned the game went great up to that point, close all the way, no complaints just a good close clean game (local championship) and I just couldnt see firering up the whole gym ( at least 300 people) with a few seconds left when it was something between me and the coach and only a couple people may have heard. I will say it did piss me off like no other comment all year. But when I went home, grab a beer and jumped in my hot tub I felt good about it but woundered what other Refs would have done. By the way I'm not that new a Ref. I've been Officiating for 10 years, mostly Armed Forces adult and youth Rec leagues as its all I had a chance to do since I was in the military for 22 years, I just started NJBL this year and loved it. I got selected to do the district championship last sunday ( 3 man, that was cool) and would love to do High School again (only did 1 year) and college would be a dream. Learned more this year then any and alot from this forum....thanks