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refnrev Sat Nov 04, 2006 10:42am

Medical paroblems: I always ask. Do you?
 
In every pre-game in every sport, ay every level, after asking, "Coaches are your players legally and properly equipped?" I follow with, "Are there any medical conditions of which we need to be aware?" I am amazed at how many affirmitive reponses I have gotten just this fall... severe asthma, possible seizures, complete deafness (soccer) almost complete deafness (basketball - she could hear the whistle but had real trouble with your words, espcially if there was much crowd noise so it helped to give her the signal about what she did) to diabetics with and without insulin pumps. Don't you think the FED should make this a mandatory part of the pre-game with HC and captains. It might make us aware of a potential serious situation that we might not understand and could get the coaches, a nurse or doctor from the crowd, or trainers on the field or court immediately.

refhoops Sat Nov 04, 2006 12:26pm

This is something that I have included with the coaches for the last few years. I beleive this is good game management not only for the issues that you state but also if a player is coming back from an injury.

tjones1 Sat Nov 04, 2006 02:37pm

I don't. I keep it short and sweet. I include everything the NFHS wants to be covered. I believe they have put it upon the coach's responsibility to notify the game officials, therefore I don't cover it. It's only came up twice in my short career. Then again, it's probably not a bad idea.

JRutledge Sat Nov 04, 2006 08:55pm

I do not feel it is our responsibility to ask this. Why do I want to know the medical history of the players? If there is a medical problem, that is for medical personnel to sort out. I am there to officiate the game and if someone has issues that will cause a problem that I have to deal with, this is something the teams should take care of. I do not think this is something the NF should require and something I would not likely ever ask.

Peace

jontheref Sat Nov 04, 2006 09:43pm

I agree with JR. If a player goes down or is having difficulty or in some kind of distress, we as officials can deal with that on the fly. I dont think asking before the game is going to do much for me. The chances of me remembering #5 has asthma or whatever arent real high. So I would refer not to know and deal with what I have to. Its like, I dont really need to know who has contacts on....if there is a problem, I will deal with it at the moment.

tomegun Sat Nov 04, 2006 10:52pm

My question is, how would it matter or have a bearing on how you would call the game?

Nevadaref Sun Nov 05, 2006 01:45am

Quote:

Originally Posted by refnrev
In every pre-game in every sport, ay every level, after asking, "Coaches are your players legally and properly equipped?" I follow with, "Are there any medical conditions of which we need to be aware?" I am amazed at how many affirmitive reponses I have gotten just this fall... severe asthma, possible seizures, complete deafness (soccer) almost complete deafness (basketball - she could hear the whistle but had real trouble with your words, espcially if there was much crowd noise so it helped to give her the signal about what she did) to diabetics with and without insulin pumps. Don't you think the FED should make this a mandatory part of the pre-game with HC and captains. It might make us aware of a potential serious situation that we might not understand and could get the coaches, a nurse or doctor from the crowd, or trainers on the field or court immediately.

I think this is a fantastic idea! It can only help us in our main task of looking after the safety of the players.

While most of us aren't doctors or EMTs and couldn't do anything for the kid ourselves, if a problem arose, it certainly could help us in identifying a possible situation earlier and getting the player help more rapidly.

While I haven't yet begun to ask the coaches prior to the game, (I will likely start doing so) I am quite good at remembering that #6 had to leave the game in the first half to use her inhaler. If I see her having trouble breathing at some point later in the contest, I am going to stop it as soon as I can.

It really is staggering when I think about it because I have had several players in soccer matches in the past couple of years drop on the field due to asthma and need to have a parent or coach run an inhaler out to them. I've had the poor parent with the inhaler be on the opposite sideline from the teams and not know if he/she could come out onto the field to help his/her kid. If I know this information ahead of time, and can wave a desperate parent on to provide some needed medicine, it can only help a kid. I'm all for that.

I don't recall any problems with asthma when I was a HS player, or peanut allergies, or some of these other issues. I guess it is a different world today.

Nevadaref Sun Nov 05, 2006 01:46am

Oh look, I'm on the opposite side of Rut on this issue! Big shock there! :D

Camron Rust Sun Nov 05, 2006 07:36pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by JRutledge
I do not feel it is our responsibility to ask this. Why do I want to know the medical history of the players? If there is a medical problem, that is for medical personnel to sort out. I am there to officiate the game and if someone has issues that will cause a problem that I have to deal with, this is something the teams should take care of. I do not think this is something the NF should require and something I would not likely ever ask.

Peace

Shocker....


I agree! ;)

BigTex Sun Nov 05, 2006 08:17pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nevadaref
If I see her having trouble breathing at some point later in the contest, I am going to stop it as soon as I can.

How long do you want you games to be? I think if we know something about a condition of a player, we may be held liable if something happens on the court. i can hear the little mommy (and the lawyer daddy) now, "that ref knew about little Suzy's/Jimmy's asthma and he did not stop the game so he could puff on his inhaler. He has been traumatized now by that mean ref." we are much better off sticking to the rules and th things we can control, I certainly don't want to go looking for stuff.

Mark Padgett Sun Nov 05, 2006 09:09pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by BigTex
How long do you want you games to be? I think if we know something about a condition of a player, we may be held liable if something happens on the court. i can hear the little mommy (and the lawyer daddy) now, "that ref knew about little Suzy's/Jimmy's asthma and he did not stop the game so he could puff on his inhaler. He has been traumatized now by that mean ref." we are much better off sticking to the rules and th things we can control, I certainly don't want to go looking for stuff.


I absolutely agree. IANAL (I work for a living), but I do not want the responsibility (and liability) of knowing about a medical condition. If a player has a medical condition that makes it unsafe for them to participate under "normal" adherence to the rules, then that player should not be participating.

That's not my call - it's the player's parents call.

JRutledge Sun Nov 05, 2006 09:22pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nevadaref
Oh look, I'm on the opposite side of Rut on this issue! Big shock there! :D

Of course you think this is a great idea. You have done nothing but demonstrate that you feel that all officials can solve all problems. What else is new? It can be youth sports, rules interpretations or simple philosophy. Everything you say here as done nothing but demonstrate that very idea of over officiousness. You probably want the rules to allow us to diagnosis medical conditions as well. :rolleyes:

Peace

Jurassic Referee Sun Nov 05, 2006 09:29pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Camron Rust


I agree!

Just for the record, me three.

Much as I like to play doctor, there's a time and a place for it. And the time and place isn't when I'm playing at being an official.

Dan_ref Sun Nov 05, 2006 09:44pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nevadaref
I think this is a fantastic idea! It can only help us in our main task of looking after the safety of the players.

While most of us aren't doctors or EMTs and couldn't do anything for the kid ourselves, if a problem arose, it certainly could help us in identifying a possible situation earlier and getting the player help more rapidly.

I disagree 118%. (And I'm not so sure my main task is to look after the safety of the players btw, but that's a different thread.)

As a ridiculously extreme example - say you know a kid has a heart problem and he goes down during the game. You run around screaming your fool head off "HE'S HAVING A HEART ATTACK! QUICK!! CHECK HIS HEART!!" when in reality he's taken an elbow to the head.

When a player goes down the most I will do is ask if he's OK, or if it's obvious he's not I'll beckon the coach & trainers in to take care of it. Then I move quickly to the other side of the court.

JRutledge Sun Nov 05, 2006 09:48pm

Dan,

Great point.

I really hope that Nevada is not a football official. Soccer does not count. ;)

Peace

Jurassic Referee Sun Nov 05, 2006 09:50pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dan_ref
Then I move quickly to the other side of the court.

We have a winner, folks. Wisest post to date.

Unless you're a fully trained MD, RN, or EMT, fuggedaboutit.

Dan_ref Sun Nov 05, 2006 10:18pm

Wow. I got both JRs to say I wrote a good post.

Is it too late to change my mind??

:)

ATXCoach Mon Nov 06, 2006 06:32pm

I'm shocked and embarrassed at most of the responses to this post.

I think that the examples given in opposition of asking before hand are extremely unlikely. I would like to think that if some kid was lying on the court convulsing or motionless that you would stop the game immediately, regardless of what you do or don't already know about the person or how your little book tells you to handle the situation. Nobody is asking you to perform medical assistance, just to provide the opportunity for help to get there unimpeded.

I think the original poster does a great service to him or herself and the game. The argument for asking is simply to maintain the safety of all participants - don't try to turn it to anything else.

P.S. - In 10 years of coaching I've only had one situation where an injury warranted immediate attention - My player trying to save a ball going out of bounds races towards the endline stumbles head first into a brick wall. The ref raced across the baseline and caught her before she hit the ground. I'm glad some of you on this board weren't reffing that game, because she technically saved the ball and it was still live on the court, so what the ruling - play on until the ball is dead and let her lay unconscious on the floor.

P.S.S. - you do realize that you are officiating a game played by KIDS of varying ages and skill sets of whom a very rare few will ever make any money at. I know you take crap from everyone about the job you do, but don't put the rulebook ahead of the safety of the kids - which is your main task until you are reffing the pros.

Jurassic Referee Mon Nov 06, 2006 07:54pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by ATXCoach
I'm shocked and embarrassed at most of the responses to this post.

II would like to think that if some kid was lying on the court convulsing or motionless that you would stop the game immediately, regardless of what you do or don't already know about the person or how your little book tells you to handle the situation. Nobody is asking you to perform medical assistance, just to provide the opportunity for help to get there unimpeded.


Well, I'm shocked and embarrassed at yout basic lack of comprehension skills, Coach.

Not one poster in this thread has ever said that they wouldn't stop the game immediately if they felt that a player was legitimately injured. The posters were saying that it wasn't their job to know anything about the medical history of individual players <b>before</b> the game even started.

May I suggest that you go back and re-read the posts to date, and this time try understanding what they are really saying.

Bad Zebra Mon Nov 06, 2006 10:13pm

In our litigious society, I would be very reluctant to ask the question in a pre-game conference. I think it's a matter of liability. That may sound harsh or callous, but it's a reality. I'm sure this topic has been debated by the Fed at some point and has been left out of the pre-game for very good reasons.

JRutledge Mon Nov 06, 2006 10:40pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by ATXCoach
I'm shocked and embarrassed at most of the responses to this post.

I think the original poster does a great service to him or herself and the game. The argument for asking is simply to maintain the safety of all participants - don't try to turn it to anything else.

P.S. - In 10 years of coaching I've only had one situation where an injury warranted immediate attention - My player trying to save a ball going out of bounds races towards the endline stumbles head first into a brick wall. The ref raced across the baseline and caught her before she hit the ground. I'm glad some of you on this board weren't reffing that game, because she technically saved the ball and it was still live on the court, so what the ruling - play on until the ball is dead and let her lay unconscious on the floor.

As JR said, you really need to go back and actually read what many of us said. I was one of the first that said this was not our job. All I was talking about is that I am not trained in any kind of medical field that if a player passed out or had a seizure, I would have no idea what to do or what was necessary. This is why even during summer game there is a trainer or some person with medical training to help for anywhere from minor to serious ailments.

Also you are assuming that most of us here only work with kids. Many of us work games with adults. I have worked many college games and I can tell you many college programs have more training staff on them than officials on the field. Also I work football where the violence in the sport is much more than most basketball games will ever get. The minute a kid falls, there are 4 or 5 people trained in a football game to take care of that kids needs. I was at a college camp this summer and there was a kid that had a seizure (no medical history from all accounts) and I was lost as to what to do. Fortunately the college that ran the team camp had medical personnel to take care of this kid and do what was medically correct. It was funny because there was a fellow official at this camp that works in a hospital as an administrator and some of the comments that were coming from fans and observers to handle this kid's seizure would have been wrong according to this official who is not a doctor or trained in the medical profession. But he was around enough situations to have very basic knowledge of what to do and helped bring some medical equipment that was helpful to the trainer that was on staff at the moment of this kid's seizure. If we listen to you, we might have harmed this kid and caused a problem that we would have been liable for.

Quote:

Originally Posted by ATXCoach
P.S.S. - you do realize that you are officiating a game played by KIDS of varying ages and skill sets of whom a very rare few will ever make any money at. I know you take crap from everyone about the job you do, but don't put the rulebook ahead of the safety of the kids - which is your main task until you are reffing the pros.

Once again you need to go back and read what we said. YOU need to understand that it is not the rulebook that is the issue. It is the fact that if we went to college or were trained in a particular profession, most of us has never been to any kind of medical profession. I think you need to do better reading to know what we said and taking our comments in context instead of telling us what is more important.

Peace

ATXCoach Tue Nov 07, 2006 12:57am

I now understand that probably a greater number of you ref college games than I initially thought and my comments were directed towards junior high and high school games. (yes I know I said "pros", that was a bad choice of words)

JRutledge - You said I didn't read what you were all saying and that you are not trained in providing medical attention. When you copied my comments you just so happened to do a little selective pasting and cut out this paragraph . . .

I think that the examples given in opposition of asking before hand are extremely unlikely. I would like to think that if some kid was lying on the court convulsing or motionless that you would stop the game immediately, regardless of what you do or don't already know about the person or how your little book tells you to handle the situation. Nobody is asking you to perform medical assistance, just to provide the opportunity for help to get there unimpeded.

Jurassic - I read posts where the poster said they would blow the whistle and then hide on the other side of the gym (which you seconded) - not in my job description, not my problem! That's what shocks me and that's what I think some of the posters are "really saying".

Truth be told I bet if put in that situation, 99% of the people that read this board would do everything in their power to help, if that meant getting a towel to holding down a kids shoulders so they don't see there leg bent 90 degrees the wrong way. That's why reading some of the "harsh and callous" comments were so shocking.

Sorry JRs, I just think that from tip off to the final horn, anything and everything that you can do in and around the court to insure the safety of the participants is your job. I know you got a lot to do during the games, but for the length of that game, you are the judge, jury, executioner, maid, traffic cop, etc. etc.

I think asking about known medical conditions is a good idea.

LDUB Tue Nov 07, 2006 01:11am

Quote:

Originally Posted by ATXCoach
Sorry JRs, I just think that from tip off to the final horn, anything and everything that you can do in and around the court to insure the safety of the participants is your job.

It is not the officials' job to insure the safety of the participants, and of course it is not the officials' "main task". Also, how exactly does the official knowing that a player is having a seizure because they have disease X make the game any safer than the official just knowing that the player is having a seizure?

ATXCoach Tue Nov 07, 2006 01:20am

Quote:

Originally Posted by LDUB
Also, how exactly does the official knowing that a player is having a seizure because they have disease X make the game any safer than the official just knowing that the player is having a seizure?


Great point. I don't think it does in the worst case seizure scenarios we keep discussing, but if we are talking asthma or deafness, I feel advanced warning will help the officials call a better and/or safer game.

I still disagree about the "not your job to insure the safety of the player" issue. Like I said, you got a ton of things to do and I think safety on the court is near the top.

JRutledge Tue Nov 07, 2006 01:31am

ATX,

Can you reference this requirement? Can you show me one reference in any officiating book that states this is our mission?

When a kid falls out, it is very possible there are many reasons the kid fell out.

When Hank Gathers died on the floor, the family sued every doctor in sight. If there was a doctor at the game that was in the cheap seats and did not get to Hank in 2.1 seconds of him falling to the floor, they were sued.

Coach, you have no clue about officiating or responsibility of those that officiate. Your comments are the very reason why officials have little respect for many coaches. Now we are supposed to override the experience and ability of the people that are in attendance to do the very thing, but all we have to do is buy a striped shirt and that trumps medical training and licenses that states require to be a trainer at a sporting event. WOW!!!!!!

Thanks for confirming what I already know about coaches.
:rolleyes:

Peace

ATXCoach Tue Nov 07, 2006 02:11am

JRutledge, I have NEVER said you are required to do anything in the event of a serious injury but to provide the opportunity for help to get there unimpeded.

Why do you not see that!!! Why do you keep assuming that I am asking you to preform surgery with your whistle? Please read the paragraph that you have now skipped twice in my original post.

I love this board for the knowledge that I have gained about the rules and their interpretations. I love the debates that you and officiating family have about said interpretations.

I have no knowledge of the rule book that says you need to do or not do anything when a kid gets hurt. If you can sleep at night knowing that you ran away from a kid in need, then you have LOWERED my opinion of many officials.

My concern for the safety and well being of the participants is the "very reason" that you "have little respect for many coaches." Do you realize how heartless and insensitive that makes you sound?

Generally speaking, why does it always seem like you have an us against the world attitude towards players, coaches, and fans? Your knowledge of the rules is amazing and I look forward to reading many more of your posts, but you must have really been burned somewhere in the past by a player, coach, or fan.

Anyhow, we disagree about this topic completely. I'm going back to discussing with Julie/Rainmaker the rim vs release aspects of free throws now.

Goodnight JR

JRutledge Tue Nov 07, 2006 02:48am

Quote:

Originally Posted by ATXCoach
JRutledge, I have NEVER said you are required to do anything in the event of a serious injury but to provide the opportunity for help to get there unimpeded.

Why do you not see that!!! Why do you keep assuming that I am asking you to preform surgery with your whistle? Please read the paragraph that you have now skipped twice in my original post.

<b>"I'm shocked and embarrassed at most of the responses to this post."

"I'm glad some of you on this board weren't reffing that game, because she technically saved the ball and it was still live on the court, so what the ruling - play on until the ball is dead and let her lay unconscious on the floor."

"P.S.S. - you do realize that you are officiating a game played by KIDS of varying ages and skill sets of whom a very rare few will ever make any money at. I know you take crap from everyone about the job you do, but don't put the rulebook ahead of the safety of the kids - which is your main task until you are reffing the pros."</b>

These are you comments word for word. The second paragraph had nothing to do with what we were talking about in this post. I do not see anywhere in this thread that someone was talking about a kid getting knocked unconsious during a play. The reference that most of us made was about not wanting to know of a previous condition because we would either not know what to do if such a condition presented itself during a game. Running into a wall is not a previous medical condition. That would be an injury based on an accident while playing a game.

Quote:

Originally Posted by ATXCoach
You accused people of not being concerned with the safety of the players because they said they did not want to know of previous conditions before the game.

Could you show the quote?

I love this board for the knowledge that I have gained about the rules and their interpretations. I love the debates that you and officiating family have about said interpretations.

Quote:

Originally Posted by ATXCoach
I have no knowledge of the rule book that says you need to do or not do anything when a kid gets hurt. If you can sleep at night knowing that you ran away from a kid in need, then you have LOWERED my opinion of many officials.

Quote:

Originally Posted by ATXCoach
My concern for the safety and well being of the participants is the "very reason" that you "have little respect for many coaches." Do you realize how heartless and insensitive that makes you sound?

"Coach, you have no clue about officiating or responsibility of those that officiate. ,<b>Your comments</b> are the very reason why officials have little respect for many coaches."

This is my exact quote from the previous post. Where did I say a thing about safety in those comments? My comments are about your ignorance of the topic and your ignorance of what we were actually talking about. We were never talking about players running into a wall. We were talking about if we knew a kid had a serious condition (diabetes, heart condition, gout or a sprained finger) what we would do as an official. Take your time, go back to the beginning posts, and read them again. Then maybe you can join the conversation. ;)

Quote:

Originally Posted by ATXCoach
Generally speaking, why does it always seem like you have an us against the world attitude towards players, coaches, and fans? Your knowledge of the rules is amazing and I look forward to reading many more of your posts, but you must have really been burned somewhere in the past by a player, coach, or fan.

“Me against the world?” Dude, you really have a major reading comprehension problem. I sure hope you are not a teacher at a school. If you are no wonder our children are in big trouble in competing around the world.

Peace

Jurassic Referee Tue Nov 07, 2006 03:24am

Quote:

Originally Posted by ATXCoach

Jurassic - I read posts where the poster said they would blow the whistle and then hide on the other side of the gym (which you seconded) - not in my job description, not my problem! That's what shocks me and that's what I think some of the posters are "really saying".

Again, I am shocked at your complete and total lack of comprehension re: what people have been trying to tell you. As an official, you blow your whistle and then you get the hell out of the way of the people that have been properly trained and certified to deal with medical problems. It's that freaking simple. And knowing before-hand that someone has a medical problem is completely useless to an official because the great majority of us are not properly trained to deal with medical problems anyway. So, no matter what, if we see a player in difficulty during the game, we will immediately stop the game and get that player prompt and correct medical assistance from the people who are qualified to give that medical assistance. Not <b>ONE</b> official has said anything different to date in this thread.

Comprehension is a basic tool needed in discussion forums. If you want to join in an argument, at least make an effort to try and find out what the argument is actually about.

Dan_ref Tue Nov 07, 2006 01:10pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by ATXCoach
Jurassic - I read posts where the poster said they would blow the whistle and then hide on the other side of the gym (which you seconded) - not in my job description, not my problem! That's what shocks me and that's what I think some of the posters are "really saying".

I think you're talking about me.

It appears it doesn't matter what anyone is "really saying", you're going to interpret their words any damn way you like.

Go back and reread what I said. Then come back here and apologize for mischaracterizing my position.

Scrapper1 Tue Nov 07, 2006 03:17pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by ATXCoach
I read posts where the poster said they would blow the whistle and then hide on the other side of the gym (which you seconded) - not in my job description, not my problem!

For me, the reason I get away from the injured player is not to "hide" or to give the trainer room. I do it so that I do not give the coach a chance to have a confrontation on the way to his player. It's bad enough that the player is hurt. But it would be worse to have to T the coach because he told me what a lousy job I was doing that let his player get hurt.

Raymond Tue Nov 07, 2006 03:28pm

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Originally Posted by Scrapper1
For me, the reason I get away from the injured player is not to "hide" or to give the trainer room. I do it so that I do not give the coach a chance to have a confrontation on the way to his player. It's bad enough that the player is hurt. But it would be worse to have to T the coach because he told me what a lousy job I was doing that let his player get hurt.

I may be wrong, but I think that sort of scenario was involved in the Teddy V/Bobby Knight bruhaha. Knight came on the floor to tend to an injured player and used it as an opportunity to make some comments towards Teddy.

Scrapper1 Tue Nov 07, 2006 03:30pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by BadNewsRef
I may be wrong, but I think that sort of scenario was involved in the Teddy V/Bobby Knight bruhaha. Knight came on the floor to tend to an injured player and used it as an opportunity to make some comments towards Teddy.

I think you're right!! I had forgotten about that part of it.

Tim C Tue Nov 07, 2006 05:16pm

Well,
 
I would never ask that question.

Regards,

Smitty Tue Nov 07, 2006 06:36pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by ATXCoach
I'm shocked and embarrassed at most of the responses to this post.

I received an official NFHS publication along with my rule book and case book this year, which specifically called out what to do in case a player is injured. This is a direct quote from that NFHS publication:

When an injury occurs and the coach and medical personnel are beckoned to assist the injured player, move away from the area immediately. For liability reasons, you don't want to get involved in injury situations. You must avoid the urge to help.

If you're nearby, it's easier for someone to fire an emotional cheap shot at you. For example, the angry coach on the way out to the injured player may say, "This is your fault! The game is way too rough!" There's even more chance for an emotional response if a parent is summoned from the stands. Avoid it all by moving well away from the injured player until the situation is resolved.


So coach, take it up with the NFHS. We're all saying the right thing as instructed by the NFHS.

Ignats75 Wed Nov 08, 2006 03:14pm

Lets get back on track....
 
I think its a great idea, but for a different reason. I think its a game management issue. By the middle of the second quarter, I will have long forgotten what the coach told me.

BUT

If I ask that question during the pregame meet, I have now planted in the coach's mind that we are both here for the same reason: To allow the kids to play. It gives me some common ground with the coach. Kind of a Vulcan Mind control thing. After all, coaches are susceptible to all sorts of tricks.:D

Smitty Wed Nov 08, 2006 03:25pm

I don't see how asking that question makes for a better rapport with the coach. And I don't need to do anything specific to let the coach know what I'm there for. Why do you need that? Just be a good referee and everything will work itself out. Do you really think that because you asked a coach if he has any kids with medical issues that he'll be more inclined to be your buddy during the game?

Ignats75 Wed Nov 08, 2006 04:09pm

Wow SMitty. Your cynicism is showing.

Ever heard of psychology? Ever heard of of being courteous? Don't you believe that any time you can reach out to someone in a stressful situation it can set a positive tone for the day?

Of course the first time I call his PG for a charge he'll be hacked off, but it can't hurt. Or don't you believe in managing the game and just want to blow the whistle when you see a violation?:rolleyes:

There is a psychological theory called piling on. Each negative occurrence emotionally stacks up on top of the individual and can cause a lack of control. Subconciously, positive interaction can reduce this tendency. Again, an easy little game management thing. Probably only changes things once a season, but its still a positive action.

Smitty Wed Nov 08, 2006 04:15pm

It's pretty amazing that you can tell that much about my personality and character based on that one response. Well done.

So you conclude since I wouldn't ask that medical question, I'm not courteous? Why do you assume that chatting with the coaches pre-game is necessarily a stressful situation that needs some lighthearted banter? You seem to be overcompensating for something. I simply don't feel the need.

Jurassic Referee Wed Nov 08, 2006 04:41pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ignats75

Ever heard of psychology? Ever heard of of being courteous? Don't you believe that any time you can reach out to someone in a stressful situation it can set a positive tone for the day?

Ever heard of real life?

From my experience, the last thing that any coach wants to do pre-game is try to form a meaningful and lasting relationship with the game officials- unless they're trying to plant some kind of seed or gain an edge. They have got just way too much on their minds to worry about rather than trying to make nice to us. "Reach out to someone in a stressful situation"? You gotta be kidding me. If we intrude on their pre-game routine, we're an irritant.

Introduce yourselves, make sure their kids are legal, ask for questions, read a "sportsmanship" statement if your state requires it...and then get t'hell away from 'em and let them do their jobs.

The quicker, the better imo.

Personally, I save my pyschology skills for the MILF up in the fourth row.:D


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