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I was just wondering how you guys would handle this (or if there are specific rules regarding this).
In my daughter's game this weekend the opposing head coach yelled at least three racial slurs during the third quarter (three were audible to people from our team, who knows what else was said in their huddle). Two N bombs directed at the refs regarding our players and in one case he called our guard a monkey. I know how these officials handled it, they T-ed him up a couple times and tossed him. I was just wondering if this kind of crap happens very often in games that you guys work, and what you will do if you hear this kind of garbage? I was also thinking of writing a letter to the school system to inform them of what kind of image this guy is giving their school. This is only a 7th grade team, and they were playing in a out of town independent of school tournament, so I'm not sure that they would necessarily find out about it, unless someone spoke up. We were an out of state, club team, playing a school team from their state, but in a different part of the state. Do you think this is a good idea or not? By the way, I posted a question on here a month or so ago (as a first time poster) and have been returning to read your board from time to time. I really enjoy the angle I get by reading about basketball from the refs point of view. Thanks alot, Mike |
I've never had this happen in any of my games. Sounds like a good ejection to me. I think a letter to the school would be appropriate. 7th grade kids shouldn't have to be subject to such ignorance and anger.
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That type of comment is a flagrant act and the only way to handle it is to eject the guilty party.
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If I were a parent, and heard those kinds of things, you can bet I'd be writing a letter. I might even try to pressure the tournament organizer to write a letter or two, and to permanently ban the coach from any further participation in that tourney.
As a ref, I'd have tossed him on the first one, and seen to it that he got kicked out of the tournament. I can't believe the refs in your sitch let him get to three of these kinds of statements. We don't get a lot of this stuff around here, at least not that egregious. I've had a couple of coaches talk about "playing the race card" a time or two, but I usually put a stop to that kind of talk pretty quickly. We are always glad to have fans/parents see things from our point of view -- it happens very rarely!! |
Amen Rainmaker! He wpould have never have gotten the second slur out of his puss, I would've run da' bum!
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Definitely write the letter, to both the principal of the school and to the superintendent or whomever is the head honcho in that area. And make sure that the principal knows that his boss has been CC'd on it.
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DO contact the school. They can't do anything if they are not aware. They will appreciate knowing about this guy's behavior. Being crude is one thing and using racial slurs is quite different. This guy needs to correct his behavior ASAP or not be around kids.
I'd call the principal and also send a letter to verify that you contacted him. "This letter is a follow-up to our conversation of ..... so that you have a record of what happened with that coach." The letter is just in case the principal is of the old school where you ignore such incidents. That way you are covered and can show (keep a copy of the letter) that you reported the incident. The principal should be aware that this is a serious situation and that he is required to deal with it. As a former principal, I know that I would have appreciated knowing what took place. |
Agree with all of the above. The guy should not be coaching. Write the letter.
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As a current high school administrator I would want to know. Send the letter.
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FWIW In our association we are not allowed to contact the school directly, we must go through our commissioner.
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Send the letter certified with return receipt requested. There is no place for that kind of behavior. Bravo for the officials getting rid of the guy. And if there was no assistant coach then it should also have been a forfeit. You can bet if the team had no more games that there would be some pretty worked up parents on THAT side of the ledger as well.
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I personally do not know what writing a letter is going to do. If the coach was ejected from the game, I am sure the tournament director or officials are aware of why there was an ejection. Someone is going to know why on some level why there was an ejection. An ejection like this is not likely going to be something no one is going to be unaware of. Writing a letter could not hurt, just understand that it might turn into a he said, she said situation.
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It is also true that one letter from one parent may have little impact. But many letters from many parents will have a greater impact. And that can only happen if individuals are willing to go to the trouble, regardless of the possible outcome. Just my opinion. |
I didn't know that Adolph Rupp was back in Coaching?
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More than likely, the officials have already passed this information along. You're letter will reenforce their report of the situation. If multiple parents heard the comments, I'd try to get all of their names and contact information to include it as well.
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As someone in the "educational" world, a letter will do something - it will cause the school to question the coach involved. All he has to do is deny the charges, however, and not much more than a verbal reprimand will happen...on the other hand, getting a copy of a video that some other parent took, and sending that in to the school - especially if the coach's voice can be heard, now that would cause some action...
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Definetly send the letter. Express your displeasure. As a coach, I know our AD/Adminstrators would never stand for this. |
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We recently had a situation where one of the parents thought our coach sent the girls "head-hunting". After several parents asked their daughters, it seems that this parent misunderstood what was said. None of the girls heard her say to go hurt the other team and none of them interpreted it that way. IOW, maybe your coach said "You girls are better then this, show some energy. Get out there and play spunky". You thought you heard coach say monkey. ?? I don't want to doubt what you are sure you heard either way. If others heard the same as you, then send the letter. |
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My contribution to this situation (which I have NOT had personally) asks - since there is no way on earth that this coach just started using racial slurs and comments on the date and time of your game - I wonder what their behavior was previously. As responses all indicate the behavior of this individual is unacceptable to fans, players, referee's, opponents, and school administrators. Take the required action to remove it. Failing to do so passes the bad behavior on to the next practice and next game. |
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Seriously, though, as a diehard bleeding heart liberal, I have to hope that enough action would bring about some improvement in the situation. At the same time you are right that it's possible nothing will get better. There are still a few (!) jerks and weaklings who wouldn't see this as a huge problem. I do think that tackling both site management and the school personnel would be the most fruitful possibility. As you say, it's possible that if one of these venues isn't concerned, the other one would be upset enough to get this guy away from kids. |
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My main point is we are not going to save the world because this coach is fired or not. I am sure this coach has used that language before, but it might be the first time they did so in this setting. I think a lot of people say things behind closed doors they almost never say in public or around certain people. This is probably just a situation where this coach misspoke and paid for it by getting ejected. But to think something major is going to happen with a letter being written is not very sensible if you ask me. Peace |
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Rosa Parks, who Rut rightly eulogizes in his signature line, took a simple - yet courageous - stand because it was the right thing to do. In doing so, she showed all of us that the simple actions of regular people (like us) DO make a difference in the world. None of us, alone, can "save" the world, but we can "change" it, little by little. Write the letter. |
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Thanks guys and gals,
I really appreciate your feedback. I realize that a letter might very well fall on deaf ears, but I went ahead and wrote the letter, and will mail it tomorrow. In the end I figured it couldn't hurt. I CC'ed all administrators that I could find. While I think my motives might come into question, if they take an honest look at the situation...I'm not from their state, I don't know their school, and we are highly unlikely to ever see this team again. For a couple posters who asked, I'm a white guy. However my step daughter is African American. Our team's racial makeup is about 50:50. Not suprisingly, this guys team is 100% white, they were getting spanked by about 25 when this guy went off. His specific comments were: "You gonna let that big, corn-fed N____ run all over my girls" to the ref. "Play defense on that monkey" yelled towards his team. and as he was being ejected, towards the refs "If you weren't such a God D@#ned N______ lover you would have seen that charging call". I honestly thought he was going to attempt to slug the ref when he made this last comment All of these comments were made loud enough to be heard by many spectators. Suprisingly this guy was back at the tournament for the game the next day. We played them again, he behaved himself this time. Sorry for it taking so long to reply, I've been at the hospital welcoming my new daughter to the world. Thanks again to all who replied, Mike PS - The Adolf Rupp comment made me laugh, if you only knew how close this tournament was to Lexington. [Edited by grizwald on Jan 5th, 2006 at 11:37 PM] |
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I apologize if I slandered Rupp. I certainly know of no proof that he was racist. I heard the same said of Bobby Jones and did a Web Serach one night and read alot of biolgraphical material on him. I could find no record saying that he was personally racist. Like you say, there were and are a lot of forces both in the South and the North that contribute.
With regard to this Coach, I can't believe any School System would have a guy like that representing them? It's a disgrace. How can the parents of his players let that kind of behavior slide? It's hard to believe. |
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For several decades, he was the only coach (or one of a very small minority) in the SEC that would play opponents that were not compltely white. Other SEC schools actually turned down NCAA bids because they would have to play teams with other than white players. Several players that could have played at UK didn't, not because Rupp didn't recruit or want them, but becuase they'd have to play in deep south towns where their safety would be in jeaporday if those towns would have even let them in the arena. Before you vilify the man or believe those that do, khow the facts. |
I will put it to you this way. I will believe the people that were good enough to play for Kentucky and played for neighboring school like Louisville and what they thought of Coach Rupp. Was the Texas Western program in the Deep South? I guess Oscar Robinson never played southern school when he was a Cincinnati either or any other Black player at that time? There is a term that I have heard all my life as it related to race relations. Up South and Down South are terms used by many Black people at that time and still today. Just because Black people lived in the south did not mean they had that much of an easier road.
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Oscar Robinson wasn't even in college when those deep south schools were at their worst. I never said the Big O or other Blacks didn't play in the south. I said several SEC schools wouldn't schedule games against opponents with black players (where Rupp and UK would freely do). Since UK was in the SEC, 18 games per year would be against those teams. Not all school's programs had racists practices. Oscar did actually play for Rupp on an all-star team at one point. I also never said anything about blacks in the south having an easier or harder time. In fact, I'd guess that the blacks in the south had a miserable time. The way they were generally treated was dispicable. Here are a few quotes from Rupp: As the fifties came to a close, it became a legitimate question of when the University of Kentucky would integrate its basketball team. Rupp did start dropping small hints that he would like to recruit black players but his did not go far enough to satisfy those looking to him to take the first step. "A national magazine article on Oscar Robertson sparked criticism of Rupp in Lexington when it mentioned that the coach had considered recruiting the black star. " - by Frank Fitzpatrick, And the Walls Came Tumbling Down, Simon & Schuster, 1999, pg. 103) Adolph Rupp was once asked if he would have liked to have had Wilt Chamberlain, the Philadelphia sensation who played for Kansas in the late 1950s. "Sure," Rupp said, "but could I take him to Atlanta and New Orleans or Starkville ?" - by Chip Alexander, Raleigh News and Observer, "Remembering Rupp," 1997. Rupp announced in 1961 [5 years before the game against UTEP/Texas Wester] that he would sign and play black athletes. SEC schools which did not want to play UK would have to forfeit the games. When he learned that Mississippi State Coach Babe McCarthy secretly snuck his team out of the state in order to attend the NCAA Tournament, against state regulations, Rupp said, "That took some nerve on his part. Maybe that will wise those people up down there." - Adolph Rupp, Kentucky's Basketball Baron, - JNB Sounds like the guy was not so racist afterall...maybe a little unwilling to stick his neck out but not racist. [Edited by Camron Rust on Jan 6th, 2006 at 07:46 PM] |
If the Original Poster is to write a letter, I'd stress making sure it's professional in tone.
While it doesn't guarantee any action, it will be given more credibility than a poorly written letter or one that rants. |
At camp this summer, I learned that "Up South" means going to Atlanta from Savannah. :)
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I just read a wonderful piece on the integration of the ACC that I'm sure you would (and presumably some others) enjoy. http://www.dukebasketballreport.com/main/index.cgi?7153 Rut, Despite our intermittent run-ins here, you might be surprised to know that we have a great deal in common when it comes to how we perceive the prevalence and influence of racism in this culture. With that said, however, I have to call you out on your out-of-hand dismissal of Camron's posts on Rupp. When someone takes the time to post evidence to mitigate against the popular perception of a reputed racist, then we should do one of maybe three things: 1) admit we're wrong and change our minds, 2) reserve judgment until we see further evidence or do our own research, or 3) respond directly with counter-evidence of our own. When the choice is 4), "say 'whatever' to person presenting countervailing evidence," a perfectly reasonable conclusion is for others to say, "It doesn't matter what kind of evidence is presented; that guy thinks everybody's a racist, and nobody's going to convince him otherwise, so why try? This isn't necessarily fair, but it's not crazy. Unfortunately, though, it's even worse than that. Because in addition, it makes it easier for those people to ignore real cases of racism, because some of those trying to point out such instances are the same people who put up a wall when counter-evidence is presented in a case. I have been influenced by popular perceptions of Rupp. I also recognize, though, that the mass media have done a good job of manufacturing some convenient arch-villains that the public can recognize and universally condemn, so that everyone can feel good about how wonderfully pure they are, since they are not Rupp. In addition to allowing many to feel good about themselves, it takes many off the hook who do not fit the profile of pure evil that the popular Rupp profile does, but who nevertheless do not have pure souls. The popular images of racists are people like Rupp, George Wallace and Bull Conner, David Duke. But notice how convenient this construction is. If these people (or what we think of when we think of these people, accurate or not) and their respective characters are (as in equivalent to) racists, then it's very easy and even natural for people to believe that if they're not as bad as those images, then they're not themselves racist. You and I know that you don't have to have turned police dogs and firehoses on peaceful Birmingham marchers to be a racist, but on a sub-conscious level, many others don't. If those of us who know better can change this construction, then we can help change the world by making it easier for people to see that the more virulent forms of racism (by virtue of being more prevalent) come in more discrete outfits (e.g. 28 and 40). Peace (no sarcasm intended) |
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There's another mass psychology item which functions in this examinations of an individual's actions and motivations, and that's "us/them" thinking. In America, we tend to see everyone and everything in binary terms. Either you are a racist or you're not. You're a good guy or a bad guy. You're friend or foe. You're saint or sinner. Us or them. This simplism is very debilitating, I think, and part of the problem with the American culture today. We cant think in terms of multitude possibilities, can't respond adequately to a complex, nuanced situation with many possible outcomes. Rupp may have been very racist, but struggling to overcome it. Or he may have been a racist with some more egalitarian "blind spots". Or he may have seen the political value in acting certain ways. Or lots of other possibilities. But it's easier for us to just dismiss him out of hand, so we put him in a category, and ignore anything else that happens. Rut, I'm not saying you're doing this, although you might be. I'm saying this kind of thinking is very prevalent in our society, and I think it's inhibiting to complete understanding of our circumstances. |
George Wallace later in life did something unusual...he admitted that he was wrong.
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If I get really deep into this discussion the typical so called elite of this board is going to get mad and upset by what I say.
Secondly, just because someone says something one way, does not make it true or make everyone that reads it have to accept it. Thirdly, racism is not about wearing a KKK hood and the actions surrounding being a member. Rupp was known to have made statements very negative about Black players that he played against or were being recruited by other schools. Also Black players in the state of Kentucky decided to go to other schools in the south instead of go to Kentucky because they felt Rupp was not genuine when he was "recruiting" them. The Bottom line Cameron has the right to his opinion. That does not make him a bad person. Just do not try to rewrite history and the opinions of those that were around during that time. I guess if Cameron feels Rupp was not a racist, all the great basketball players that went to other schools were completely and totally wrong? At some point white people have to accept the fact that people of color are not going to accept your positions on race just because you feel someone is not racist or an action is not racist. Rupp side himself with the very racist side of Kentucky and parts of the south and talked openly about not have Black players at his university. It also took almost 30 years for that university to hire a Black coach in a program where a majority of their players were Black to begin with. Rupp's legacy is easy to see for many that look like me. Peace |
This conversation is useless. There is no amount of education that can really bring someone up to speed on these issues. There isn't enough intellect in the world that can replace a natural instinct. I get so sick of rational arguments and people saying something along the line of "that isn't true." I will stop right there, this is too useless!
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(Credit for most of my content goes to Jon Scott, who has done an incredible amound of research on this topic)
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"Rupp was unique," said Bill Spivey, a Kentucky star in the 1950s. "He wanted everybody to hate him and he succeeded. He called us names some of us had never heard before." - by Dave Kindred, Atlanta Journal and Constitution "The Baron Made Basketball Important," March 16, 1997. "Adolph would never allow himself to get close to the players," [former player Tommy] Kron said. "He was a tough, gruff kind of guy who would verbally abuse his players to get them to play harder." by Jo-Ann Barnas, Detroit Free Press, "They Changed the Game: Texas Western," March 29, 1996. Quote:
...he was never intimately involved or interested in recruiting. This was a man who, before the NCAA outlawed the practice, used to hold a tryout of high school players during the summer where he would pick the cream of the crop for enrollment at the University, and send the other players throughout the rest of the South to find a roster spot. This was a man who had an All-American [James Jordan from North Carolina] approach him and ask to transfer to Kentucky, despite Rupp telling him he didn't think he was the kind of player suited to the fast-paced style of the Wildcats. During the latter stages of his career, he had attained his stature within college basketball and wasn't used to having to go out and work for talent. Much of the recruiting work was delegated to his assistants and even his players at time. Rupp has been criticized subsequently by those who are intent on making Rupp's lack of effort in recruiting blacks during the latter stage of his career as evidence of his racist attitude. No doubt Rupp felt somewhat uncomfortable recruiting blacks who he had previously only had minimal contact with. But Rupp did make an effort to recruit. These critics, when studying his recruiting efforts of black athletes, fail to comprehend his recruiting practices of most all athletes. "Let me assure you that even if you were white and 7 feet, 8 inches tall, and you came in to see Mr. Rupp, he would just sit there and look at you. You wouldn't get any feeling that, 'Boy, you're just terribly important to us.' And we were at a time when these young black athletes needed to be told, 'We want you more than anything else. Here's a sense of the kind of life you'll have on campus.' He just didn't have that." - Quote by Robert Johnson in book by Frank Fitzpatrick, And the Walls Came Tumbling Down, Simon & Schuster, 1999, pg. 146. "My view of that is I do not subscribe to the group that thinks that Adolph was a racist. I believe that for two reasons. One, he wanted to win too much. And the other reason is Adolph had reached that point where he didn't recruit much of anyone. He was so used to potential All-America coming to him that he just didn't get off his duff to recruit." - Quote by Robert Johnson in book by Frank Fitzpatrick, And the Walls Came Tumbling Down, Simon & Schuster, 1999, pg. 148. "Practically every day his senior year, Butch Beard said, 'some Kentucky alum' came by his home. 'They wanted Kentucky to be the first to integrate the SEC. They said if Adolph did it, everybody would.'" - by Dave Kindred, Atlanta Journal and Constitution, "Facts Belie Stereotype of Racist Rupp at UK," May 11, 1997. Quote:
Check out the opinions of those actually around at that time....the Texas Western players universally report that race was not an issue. "We didn't see this as a black-white thing -- we just loved to play ball," - Bobby Joe "Slop" Hill, Texas Western Guard, Bergen Record, March 3, 1996. "For us, I honestly don't think it was a black-white thing. It was Texas Western going up against Kentucky, who's been there before." - Nevil "The Shadow" Shed, by Jack Wilkinson, Atlanta Journal and Constitution, April 1, 1991. "It just happened that we had five black starters, and Kentucky had five white starters. We were never coached like that. We weren't into black-white. There weren't any racial slurs. We never heard Pat Riley, Louie Dampier, those great Kentucky players, say a word." - David Lattin, by Dave Kindred The Sporting News, "Haskins truly put his heart into game. Winner of 719 games, national title had his share of suffering," August 31, 1999. "To us it was a pride game," said Texas Western's Harry Flournoy. "It was just simply an opportunity to show the nation what we had. We didn't say, 'We're going to go out there and whip those white players' butts.'" - by Pat Forde, USA Today, "Legacy of Rupp Slow to Recede Repercussions of 1966 Title Game Still Echo in Many Ears," April 2, 1996. "That part [black-white] never crossed our minds," say former Texas Western guard Orsten Artis. - by Curry Kirkpatrick, Sports Illustrated, "The Night They Drove Old Dixie Down," April 1, 1991. Quote:
The pattern of black players is essentially the same for nearly all major universities. To single out Rupp and UK is disinginueous and clearly reeks of jealousy more than racism. So what if it took thirty years to before UK had a black coach. The fact that 20% of UK's coaches since 1930 have been black is far above most, if not all, of the nation s major colleges. I don't see a black coach at Duke or UNC or Indiana. Does that make Smith, Knight, or Krzyzewski racists. |
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Believe what you want to believe. None of what you have stated in your post is going to change my mind and certainly not going to change the minds of others. Let us move on. Peace [Edited by JRutledge on Jan 8th, 2006 at 06:27 PM] |
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The points you make...along the lines of so-and-so said this, who heard if from someone who heard it from someone...are, while sensationial and worthy of the National Enquirer, are at best gossip. Rupp is a popular target because he was famous and happened to be on the wrong side of a historic event. The point of him being a racist didn't even arise until 20 years after his death...when it became fasionable to peg people as racists and writers decided to rewrite the Texas Western game as a racial event when none of the participants even agree that was the case. It would be a lot more fair to pick someone who can defend himself than to accuse someone who can't answer the accusations. |
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JR, do you really want me to answer that question? Although you are old enough to know, maybe you don't understand either. Maybe you should think about why I'm saying that.
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Wait a minute Tommy, you cannot say that here. As people of color we must accept the majority opinion on race and anything else having to do with our heritage or opinions on these issues. I guess reading Dr. Cornel West and Dr. Alvin Poussaint (or any other Black writer or philosopher that is educated and has been teaching and speaking on this issues for several years) is something we should not do. We should listen to Dr. Camron Rust about anything dealing with these issues and sit in our place.
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I try keep the hell away from the threads like this because every damn one of them ends up like this. Now, whether I agree with somebody or not, I still think each individual still has the right to have their own opinion. It doesn't matter whether I have any respect at all for a certain opinion, I still respect the right of that individual to have that opinion. Now, obviously, you don't agree with that. So, you tell me, Tom, exactly why do you think Jeff Rutledge is entitled to have his opinion, but Camron Rust isn't also entitled to have his own opinion. Please clear that up for me. |
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1. Lacking education or knowledge. 2. Showing or arising from a lack of education or knowledge: an ignorant mistake. 3. Unaware or uninformed. You don't, nor never will, have the knowledge on this subject so you fit the definition. Speaking from knowledge gained by googling is vastly different from living in my skin. A smart person would realize this and back the (*expletive*) up! It still remains to be seen what you will do. When dealing with people I know, I do not pass judgement on subjects I don't know about, I ask questions so I can learn. If I did read something in a book and was told it was wrong, i would at least consider the words of someone who has lived through a given subject. Gentlemen, can we keep discussions about basketball officiating? |
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What I do not understand is why this is such an issue in the first place. I do not live in Kentucky or care what they do there. Peace |
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I honestly didn't expect that from you. I guess I was wrong. I will endeavour to do the same to you in the future as I do with Jeff Rutledge. I will keep all of my <b>ignorant</b> opinions to myself and will not debate any of them with you. Hopefully that will make you feel better. Sad, sad, sad.... |
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I read the post again and it is almost like you are saying I'm supposed to be somehow different than Rut or better. Tell me why what I said is sad so I will know.
Don't you think it is sad that would stop the flow of basketball related information because of social and cultural differences. I'm an official with my own experiences, skills and opinions; so is Rut. Letting our cultural differences keep you from freely communicating on this board is wrong, especially when you consider the fact that people are prejudice and do business with each other everyday. |
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Thank you for the history lesson. Remind me to get mad at all my professors and other educators that told me things completely different than what you have. I will remember to share with them how wrong they were about the Civil Rights Movement and any other event that dealt with racial issues in this country. Thank you once again for showing me the light. Where would I be in this world without your vast knowledge of race and America? Peace |
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