"I know you believe you understand what you think I said,...."

[Man in Grey]

Show me a person who's been raped and murdered and let them answer wich was the worst.

As a person who's been raped as a youngster I feel I have the right to say this.

It took me a long time, and it will never heal completely, but I am glad I'm alive and not murdered. This doesn't mean that for someone else it could be different, hence the suicides amongst rape victems. An arguement about wich is worse is imo just as pointless as the discussion whether beeing devorced or widowed is worse. All these event are of the scale of human measurement, they are beyond that. Let's not have a "who's most pittyfull" contest, there realy is no consolation in it.

[Edited by Man in Grey on Jan 16th, 2005 at 12:26 PM]