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			My initial comment would have been direct and a louder than normal conversational voice, "DO NOT yell at me", then I would have turned and walked away.  I've done it before. Also, I've told a coach who was yelling across court at my partner "if you're going yell at us, I'm going to yell at you." If I get a smart-ass comment about "taking it personal(ly)", I'm issuing a bench warning (high school) or telling my partners "this coach has been warned" (college).
 Never had anybody grab me or contact me, so that would probably have caught me off-guard.  Now that it has come up here, and in a Facebook forum, and an NBA game, I'm T'ing in that situation.
 
				__________________A-hole formerly known as BNR
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