So he's defining "out of control" by the number of technical fouls called by the officials who don't take care of business, and he wants you to follow their lead and just take too much crap.

Thank him for his time and move on.

That's kind of what I thought too. I'm not changing his mind, so there's no reason to even respond.

All money ain't good money.
It is refreshing and encouraging to read of you sticking to your principles.