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			well my approach today was something that SDS has suggested to me in a previous thread. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I believe I said that I would say, "Are you arguing balls and strikes?" I do not believe I said anything about, "Are you going to argue balls and strikes?" I ask a direct question concerning his current behavior, not about what he is going to do in the near future. "Are you arguing balls and strikes?" Answer: "Yes." Dump him. "Are you arguing balls and strikes?" Answer: "No." Let him stay, and he really has nowhere to take the argument, as he has just said that he's not arguing. If he starts to argue again, dump him. 
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