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[btdt]

The road to hell is littered with chaos in the image of “getting it right”. It is not unusual to create more problems than you had. Be in position, know the situation and read the play accordingly, announce your judgment with confidence.
Limit “getting it right” conferences to a pre-determined set of criteria that you have decided are acceptable situations.
The theory of “Getting it right” is a double edged sword.