Snaqwells wroteI can see this, it's what I would do, to be honest. But the OP indicated the coaches were unaware of what the differences were.
If a coach isn't aware of the differences, he's not going to know what questions to ask and will still blame (in the OP) the officials.
Not necessarily. The attitude of the officials toward the coach's questions during the game will have a huge impact on how things go. Example -
Coach asks a question and official calmly turns to him and says "Coach, that is one of those rule differences we talked about." Coach says "Oh, ok."
As opposed to Coach asks a question and official turns and looks at him like he is a complete moron, gives a disgusted look, and proceeds down the court.
Now which of those two situations will end with the coach blaming the official???:rolleyes: