I certainly understand.  What did they expect you to do?  Talk to the refs?  Plead your case?  Argue?  Question their calls?  Get a T?   What?  You've got to be bigger than the situation and keep a level head.  "Guys, I understand your frustration.  I'm frustrated too.  There's not much I can do about it here.  Let's just go out there and have some fun and do our best.  OK?"  
(Yes, I have my rose colored glasses on).